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Brian McNeely

Charleston, South Carolina

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McNEELY, Brian Due to inclement weather the Memorial Service for Brian Hutto McNeely has been rescheduled for 1:00 PM, Monday, September 8, 2008 at St. Mark United Methodist Church. A reception will follow the service in the Church Hall. At his request his ashes will be scattered during a "paddle out" by his friends on Monday at the wash out on Folly Beach. Please be there by 6:30 PM. Brian Hutto McNeely, 53, died peacefully at his home on Monday, August 25, 2008. Brian was born on July 7, 1955, in Charleston a son of John William McNeely, Jr. and Cecelia Hutto McNeely. He attended Stono Park Elementary and St. Andrew's High School. Brian was a local tour guide and formerly worked for many years in the hospitality field at such places as Frances Willards, Marianne Restaurant and for a food supplier serving our local restaurants. His passion for surfing dictated that he spend Summer days at the washout on Folly Beach. His love for his friends was sincere. His faith in God was real and helped him to accept the challenges he faced. He was an active member of St. Mark United Methodist Church and could often be found at Crisis Ministries where he volunteered his time and talent. Brian had a great sense of humor that made him fun to be around and a positive, upbeat attitude that was infectious. He is survived by his sister Leah McNeely Tudor of Columbia, SC and his brother J. Michael McNeely of Pauline, SC as well as several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Mark United Methodist Church Crisis Ministries Program 43 Geddes Ave. Charleston, SC 29407. Arrangements by JAMES A. MCALISTER, INC. 766-1365 Visit our guestbook at www.charleston.net/deaths.

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Our family has many fond memories of Brian as he dated my sister-in-law's sister for several years. He was always so much fun--my children loved him--he always was willing to throw a ball with them or wrestle. He was so full of life. My husband, John, passed away two years ago--I know they are having a great time catching up. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. He will be missed by his many friends and relatives.

Brian, Ricky, & Egor 2004 smiling on the beach

To My friend Brian,

I was there on Monday as we set your ashes a drift into the sea that you shared with us on so many wonderful occasions. I wish I would have said this that night, but will say it hear. A quote from Leo Kottke and his song "Tiny Island" brings your life to my mind. " I wish I had a tiny Island floating in the sea, palm trees sway, don't get in the way, it is a tropical ease, endless waves at the end of our days and the sighing of the sea." I know you now have all that...

Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers to Brian’s family. This is really a shock to Linda and I, and our neighborhood. Brain is the second soldier to leave us in the past couple of months, following Ken. Brian and I have been neighbors and friends for several years, stood ready to do each other favors, borrowed books and tools back and forth, and often discussed affairs of the complex, the city and the world. I know he fought adversity because of his serious back condition, operations and...

Michael and Leah,
It has been many years since our paths have crossed. I just heard about Brian from a friend that I used to surf with and was very troubled to hear the news. I just wanted you to both know that I was thinking of you and hope that we can catch up sometime.

Dearest Leah and Michael, I just heard about Brian and wanted to let you know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I saw Brian at St. Marks the last time I was in Charleston last Spring. He always had a twinkle in his eye and we loved sharing tales of our childood.
Right about now, you should be at the wash-out, I am thinking of you and sending my loving support and prayers.
I know the pain in losing a brother, time helps and remembering the good times does too.
All my Love,...

What a special person God blessed us with in Brian. We will miss his wonderful sense of humor and his gift with the teens of our church.

I did not know Brian very well but always found him to be a friendly, kind person. The last time I saw him was at my cousin Lise's funeral. He always struck me as very sincere, genuine person. I know you will miss him.

Brian and I worked together at Marianne Restaurant. I bought a print of a mother whale and her pup he had lovingly created over several years of diligence. I have reframed it now three times and I always think of him when I look at it. I remember Brian loved surfing and was a spritely fellow.

To his family and close friends I express my condolances for your loss, and know that even 32 years removed I feel it too. He was a loving guy whom I'm sure will be keeping an eye on us. Cheers...

Our thought and prayers are with you. God Bless you.