Carol Adair

Carol was such a huge part of my life growing up. I lived in the house across the street and she litterally is in almost every memory I have of Fairfax and my childhood. She was an amazing, intelligent and beautiful person, and I am just honored to have known both her and Kay for as long as I have. She will be greatly missed.

We send condolences to Kay and to Carol's family from all of us at Abrams books in New York.

Michael Jacobs

My deepest sympathy to you, Kay, in your loss.
warmest thoughts,
Annie

My deepest sympathy goes out to you, Kay, and Carol's family and extended family. How sad her passing must be for all who knew her. I had the honor of working closely with Carol for 8 years when I was on the faculty at Cogswell College and Carol, as department chairperson, brought her particular brand of humor and dedication. I visited her at C.O.M. where she radiated her passion and made those within her sphere feel inspired to do their best. My heartfelt condolences. Carol Duke

Long ago, at a family gathering at Jackie's house, I mentioned to Carol that I would love to write one day, but that I had such a hard time getting on with it. Without a thought, she offered her help. Offered her time. Offered to look over some things. Assist in any way she could. Without being asked. Kay, I'm so sorry for your great loss. I know about loss, and you and your family are in my prayers.

I still dream of Carol. We were friends from the 10th grade on and we had great adventures for a long time. She was a fierce mentor, really almost a warrior of encouragement.
It wasn’t easy to do nothing, to want nothing, to not strive and still get to be Carol’s friend. And we were for many years, then, somehow, we weren’t able to be anymore.
Her influence was great. She was a scrupulous scholar and something to see on the dance floor. I am sorry this is an ending. She is always so...

I knew Rubi from the WELL. She was host of the Fitness and the Poetry conferences. That seems an odd combination, but she was active and aware in both body and mind. Body, mind and heart, really.

You could read the teacher in everything she wrote: a kind, supportive, piercing, attentive regard that kept one working to deserve that quality of attention.

I miss her. There are too few people like her.

Although I only met Carol once in person, her passionate, articulate presence on the Well influenced me greatly. I sorrow for the loss of this fierce Martha, who also came to appreciated her inner Mary. Sincere condolences to all her beloveds, especially Kay, Peggy, and Jeanne.

Kay, Raysa and I send our deepest sympathies to you and to the kids/grandkids.

I was so happy for you both at the news of your wedding. I can't begin to imagine how profound your loss is. You and Carol are in our hearts.