May God bless you and your...
To my beautiful sister in law and friend, I love you Bobby and I think of you every day and miss you terribly. Until we meet again xxx
Kelly Wilmer
September 15, 2025 | Family


Portland, Oregon
04/16/1951 - 07/25/2025
Carol was born in Santa Monica, California, to two wonderful parents, Bob and Charlotte Wilmer. The family was very close and enjoyed living in a lovely neighborhood near the beach. Her younger siblings, Linda and Bobby, remember her energy and positive outlook, which led to numerous fun...
Read MoreTo my beautiful sister in law and friend, I love you Bobby and I think of you every day and miss you terribly. Until we meet again xxx
Kelly Wilmer
September 15, 2025 | Family
I did not know Carol but, after reading this obit memorializing her, I wish I had. I am an avid obit reader. My feeling is if someone took the time to write such beautiful sentiments about the person, it's a well-deserved read. Typically it is the photo or the first few lines that draw me in. I don't read them all. But, my husband and I lost our daughter several years ago and I think that did it for me. For Carol, it was that picture of her on the beach that told me I had to read it. Such a...
Julie McCarter
August 17, 2025 | Other
I´m so sorry to hear of Carol´s passing and wish you my heartfelt sympathy. I didn´t know Carl well, but every time I saw her, she was warm, kind and so easy to talk to. I will remember her with great fondness.
Betty Wagner
August 15, 2025 | Friend

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DAVID ALBRECHT
August 15, 2025 | Portland
Dear Jeff, I was deeply saddened to learn of Carol´s recent passing. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I hope your loss is tempered in the coming days by the rich memories and experiences of your life together, and the touch of Carol´s sweet spirit. I respected Carol as a loving and attentive mother, a caring friend, a patient and attentive teacher, and a lady with style, quiet confidence, and genuine kindness. All who knew her were graced, indeed, by this special hitchhiker...
George K Beard
August 13, 2025 | Friend
So sorry for your loss. Remember the good times; you and your family had a lot of them. Carol was a bright spark.You were a very loyal spouse, Jeff. Sometimes, life sucks but there's not much you can do about it.
Bob and Jan Cassidy
August 11, 2025 | Friend
Jeff - I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. While I never met Carol, she sounds like simply a wonderful person. I understand what you're going through and my heart is with you, my friend. Jack
Jack Folliard
August 11, 2025 | Friend
Hard to lose a close friend of 50+ years. Carol was such a loving part of Margaret's and my life. She'll always remain in our hearts. Jeff was a tower of strength and comfort for her throughout her struggles these past few years. Our thoughts are with Jeff, Leslie and Brian, along with other family members. Carol, thank you for all of the joy and shared memories. Scott and Margaret Terrall
Scott and Margaret Terrall
August 10, 2025
I will always remember Carol´s bright smile. Please accept my condolences. Myra
Myra Friedman
August 10, 2025