May God bless you and your...
I made her knit soc which she loved. Fun. Loved her.
Ellynn Packard
September 26, 2025 | Friend


Northampton, Massachusetts
Carol Joan Drexler 6/24/1931 ~ 9/21/2023 Northampton, MA - Carol lived a lifetime of kindness, compassion and love. She left her body while in her home surrounded and cared for by her beloved friends and family. Carol left her successful but unsatisfying career as a children's book editor in NY...
Read MoreI made her knit soc which she loved. Fun. Loved her.
Ellynn Packard
September 26, 2025 | Friend
Carol midwifed me for 10 years through a very difficult separation and emotional time. I feel blessed to have had her in my life and be a receiver of her wisdom and her love. Sending love to you Carol. God bless you and I hope you are still wearing your Socks and Sandals.
Suzy Canter
March 08, 2024 | Friend
Carol was an extraordinary woman and I loved being able to be friends with her for over forty years. So glad we got to visit last year and to see her nestled into her new home. Leona Phillips
Leona Phillips
November 22, 2023 | Friend
Carol, you were such a special soul, and you'll always live on in my heart. I wish we could gather and have a ritual to celebrate your life and all the souls you touched while you were here.
Debbie
November 14, 2023
I had known Carol for many years since she came to the Valley. We drove to/from NYC together one day in the 70's. I think it was to see the Judy Chicago "Dinner Party" exhibit. We knew each other over the years as she started a counselor and therapist group to which I belonged. I visited her home in South Amherst on several occasions. She was friends with friends of mine in Leverett, so we met on several occasions at their home. When one of Carol's friends wanted to contact her (I forget who...
Judy (aka JR) Raphael
October 23, 2023 | Friend
Carol came in on the summer solstice, and left on the fall equinox. She strove for, and demonstrated, balance. I was happy to have been her roofer, and plasterer. She kept a lovely home.
Rorie Woods
October 10, 2023 | Other
I loved her. She was great and wore the Sox I made for her!
Ellynn Packard
October 08, 2023 | Friend
I deeply loved, and continue to love this woman. Carol Joan, thank you for your presence among us...
Molly Scott
October 08, 2023 | Friend
I have known Carol since she moved to the valley. We shared much in common, especially our devotion to our work as psychotherapists. She was truly a trailblazer and gave so much to us, to our lesbian feminist community. She was a very special woman and I know that she will be greatly missed.
Michele Reiter
October 06, 2023 | Work