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CHARLENE SHALLER Obituary

September 19, 1922 - October 15, 2016 EDMOND Charlene (Jordan) Shaller was born in Carbon, TX on Sept. 19, 1922, to Charles and Ima Jean (Skinner) Jordan and died on Oct. 15, 2016, in Edmond, OK. She attended McMurray College and graduated from Draughn School of Business. She married Thomas William "Tom" Irwin and moved to Buffalo, NY, during WWII. At the end of the war, they settled in Oklahoma City and started their family and developed their roots in The Village. She was a preschool teacher for Prince's Play School for many years. She always maintained her home and enjoyed gardening and growing her own vegetables, along with being a wonderful mother. Charlene and Walter Shaller joined their families in 1966 starting out in Oklahoma City, then Dallas and finally, settling in Abilene until his death, and operated the Buffalo Gap Steakhouse for many years. They were active and served in the Texas Restaurant Association. Besides being in the restaurant business, they traveled extensively all over the world, and her favorite vacation of all times was being on the Queen Elizabeth 2 ship. She was a member of St. Paul's Methodist Church. A prolific reader, Charlene's book collection could fill a small town's public library. She could always be counted on for a review and a recommendation for her less literary friends. There were very few days that ever passed that she didn't spend time reading from the newspaper or a long novel. She acquired nearly as many movies as she did books, and favored a good biography or one with a good moral lesson. Walter was able to live at home with the compassionate and loving care he received from Charlene, which prevented him from living out his years at a nursing home. She was a wonderful nurse and prepared tasty diabetic meals and kept the home running smoothly until his death. Despite the tremendous void she felt with his passing, she continued to lead a full life, creating detailed miniature doll houses, playing bridge and attending the philharmonic. Charlene was always thoughtful and fun-loving and played a round of bridge every opportunity, even if it was just on her computer. Her indomitable spirit and the ease of gliding through life and enjoying herself will be part of her legacy that her family will remember. She was preceded in death by her husband, Walter; brothers, Roy, Jack, and Harry Jordan; and Bernard Campbell, her companion in her twilight years. She leaves behind her daughters, Annette Knight, and her husband, Sam Bader, Colorado Springs, CO; Jane and her husband, Eddie Lowther, OKC, OK; and her son, Thomas William "Bill" Irwin, Jr., Austin, TX. She also had five grandchildren, Tracey Myers, James Knight, Krystal Wallace, Connery and Tosha Lowther. She has five great-grandchildren, Brennen Myers, Jaden and Joclynn Knight, Chandler Wallace and Deacon Lowther. Other survivors include a brother, Anthony Jordan, of Palm Beach, FL; and sister, Evelyn Jarrett, Eastland, TX. The family would also like to thank the staff at Touchmark at Coffee Creek in Edmond for their wonderful staff in the memory care unit. Charlene loved Richard Mbaka and Arthur Kivumbi and they went above and beyond and were "angels" on earth to her. Funeral Services will be 1 p.m. Saturday, Oct. 22 at Llano Cemetery Chapel, 2900 S Hayes St, Amarillo, TX, with Viewing available prior to the service from noon to 12:45 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations made to the Alzheimer's Association or to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital would be appreciated. As a tribute to our mom, practice a random act of kindness, read to a child, call that friend you had intended to call so long ago, forgive someone who hurt your feelings, plant a tree or throw seeds on the barren ground to produce beauty where none existed. Sow a seed of hope in your own life and the spirit of our mother will live on in this world, far beyond our own memory banks. Please share your memories with us at www.MemorialParkOKC.com

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Published by Oklahoman on Oct. 19, 2016.

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Phil & Connie Watkins

November 3, 2016

Charlene had such a sweet smile & it really shined when she talked about how much she loved her family! I can still hear her telling stories about her & Walter''s many trips and she enjoyed showing off all those trips on the World Map above her fireplace! We are so glad that we got to share going to Perini's Wine Festival with Charlene. It was fun listening to her & Tom Perini talk about "the good old days" at the Buffalo Gap Steak House. Charlene lived her life to the fullest & we know you all have many wonderful memories to cherish! She will be definitely missed! May God Bless you all!
We love you!
Phil & Connie Watkins

Luise (Chappell) & Randy Hooper

October 19, 2016

It was a privilege to meet Mrs. Shaller and and having spent some time with her. She was a vivacious woman whose life made an impact on many. Godspeed!

Anthony Jordan

October 18, 2016

Charlene was a wonderful mother, sister, and daughter. She will be missed by me and many more. I send her on her way with my love. A great person that had great courage, wisdom, and a joy about herself.
Anthony E. Jordan
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George Andrews

October 17, 2016

Charlene...an elegant lady if there ever was one. Quick of wit and to laugh, smart as a tack, generous, kind and giving. The kind of person you want to always be around; one that makes you smile. A friend that will be deeply missed but not forgotten. Sleep in peace my dear one.

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Oct

22

Viewing

12:00 p.m. - 12:45 p.m.

Llano Cemetery Chapel

2900 S. Hayes St., Amarillo, TX

Oct

22

Service

1:00 p.m.

Llano Cemetery Chapel

2900 S. Hayes St., Amarillo, TX

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13313 North Kelley, Oklahoma City, OK 73131

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