Charles-Schaefer-Obituary

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Charles G. Schaefer

Wilmington, North Carolina

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DIED
June 1, 2018
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Wilmington, North Carolina

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Charles G. Schaefer – truly a man who never met a stranger – died June 1 in the loving arms of his wife Donna at the Lower Cape Fear Hospice after a courageous battle with Glioblastoma cancer.


Charlie – as everyone knew him -- moved to Wilmington in 2007 and worked as the co-director of the Cameron Executive Network program in the Cameron School of Business at UNCW. He proudly served on the Investment Roundtable Board and his devotion to volunteer work earned him the James R. Leutze Volunteer of the Year Award in 2015. His leadership skills made him the perfect fit as president of the British Motor Club of the Cape Fear.  With Donna, Charlie also volunteered at the Wilson Center at Cape Fear Community College.


Charlie was a long time resident of New Jersey and spent his entire career working on Wall Street as an international bond salesman, retiring from Deutsche Bank.  He was passionate about classic cars and spent many weekends working on them.  Charlie enjoyed landscaping in his yard, taking his boat to the ocean during the summer, and skiing in the winter. 


But most of all, he loved friends, those he had just met and those he knew for years.


Charlie always felt blessed to find his soulmate and best friend in Donna. They were married for 28 years. Their love and care for each other will live beyond this lifetime.  He was a wonderful father and role model - incredibly supportive of his three children, Jennifer Molnar (Mike), of Ocean, NJ; Christopher (Kelly), of Newtown, PA; and Justin (Crystal), of Harrisburg, PA.  His love surrounded his 11 grandchildren, Kira, Brooke, Morgan, Addison, Derek, Ashley, Colby, Emma, Jack, Jackson, and Lucas.  He enjoyed taking them to the beach, teaching them to surf, and driving them around – fast -- in his cars.


Charlie was born August 1, 1949 in Brooklyn, NY.  His parents were Charles and Genevieve Schaefer.  He attended Catholic grade and high school and graduated with a degree in management and economics from St. John’s University. He was affectionately known as “Kip” to his family.  In addition to his wife, children and grandchildren, he is survived by two sisters, Barbara, of Langhorne, PA; Patricia, of Harleysville, PA; a brother, Michael, of Chalfont, PA and many cousins, nieces and nephews.  


A memorial service will be held at Andrews Market Street Chapel, 1617 Market Street, Wilmington, on June 15th, beginning with a small welcoming reception at 10 a.m. followed by a service at 11.  In lieu of flowers, please send donations to help fund brain cancer research at Duke University’s Preston Robert Tisch Brain Tumor Center.

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Donna, There are no words or a magical wand that can take away your pain of losing your best friend, soulmate and partner for life. So I will continue to pray for you Donna that you will find comfort and peace knowing how blessed you were to have shared so many wonderful years with him. I can still hear his voice and see his never ending smile. I have so many things I am grateful to of had Charlie in our family. He was the best husband that my sister Donna could of ever had and I will...

He was our brother-in-law, but Charlie was really our brother. For over 30 years Charlie gave us some off the most memorable times together. The world is a lesser place without Charlie. In his own way, Charlie would find the craziest ways to make you laugh. Sometimes at his own expense (i.e. our trip to Cape May). That will always be one of the funniest trips ever!!! He was my ski partner in Colorado. Here he picked up his nickname with us as Cha Cha.
We hope that he has now found...

Dear Aunt Donna,

I wish that I were able to spend some time with you and Uncle Charlie but I look forward to hearing even more loving memories of him than what Ive already heard from Justin. Hell live on in his influence on others, like Justin who is such a great man because he had a wonderful uncle like Charlie. We love you very much and Im so happy to be a part of this beautiful family.

Thinking of you always,
Lisa

Words wont ever do this justice but Ill always remember our holiday parties and summer visits to the north jersey house and the garage that seemed so giant when I was young and the sports cars and the motorcycle.the boat trips uncle Charlie let me drive the boat when I was probably way too young but it was awesome. I remember those times like they were yesterday. Ill remember the encouraging phone calls I received my first semester away at college as well. I never like to dwell on the sad...

Dear Auntie Donna,
I know this is the hardest thing you will ever go through and I'm so sorry for your loss. Uncle Charlie was an amazing man, I'm so blessed to have had all my summers in New Jersey. I have so many great memories to hold on to. He is definitely the funniest person in all my memories growing up. I hope your many memories and knowing you are the best wife he could have asked for help you now. Please let all the wonderful things you hold dear in your heart surround you...

We will miss you Charlie more then words can say ...
Please watch over Donna and guide her and give her strength to get through this unbareable loss . You were a true fighter and Donna never leaving your side for a moment .
The true meaning of Love and devotion .
You will be in our hearts forever.

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. Charlie you touched so many lives in so many ways. The one life you touched was my son's. I will never forget and I will always be so grateful that you were such a wonderful mentor to him when attending college. You will forever be missed. While you are in eternal life now watch over Donna. All your loved ones have the best angel, you earned your wings a long time ago. You will...

Donna: I was so sorry to hear about Charlie. I got e-mails from several of our Crew Team from St. John's. He was special to all of us. We meet on our first day of classes at
St. John's. He and Wally Barton and I we reading about Crew tryouts and we all went to the meeting. Spent the next 4 years as great friends. The world will miss him and his smile.