Darren Tolsma

Everyone who knew Darren respected him as the gentleman he was. A true reflection of goodness in the world is how I will always remember him. Nothing ever spoiled Darren’s general attitude about life, which was always upbeat and inspirational. Each time I had the privilege to share a conversation with him, whether business or personal, a parting thought would always pass; “ I wish I could be more like Darren”. Not only will we miss this gentleman, we will certainly never forget this “Gentle...

Dear Tolsma Family,
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you and your family in this time of sorrow. I taught at Depew High School when Darren was a student there.

Tolsma Family,

May your strength and faith get you through this difficult time. Please know you have the prayers and support of the entire Lancaster community. We all have another angel watching over us.

Dear Mrs.tolsma and family, I'm sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are feeling.
Sincerely,
Lexie Simme

Robin and children,
Please accept my deepest heartfelt sympathy on the the loss of your husband and father. You have been and will continue to be in my prayers.

Robin and Family

I haven't seen Darren in years; I used to work with him at Amherst Systems. Darren was a wonderful person who always cared about others.

He always took the time to let others he worked with know he appreciate all you did for him. No matter how busy he was in his own job he would always give others his attention and time.

While I haven't seen him in years I heartbroken for you loss. My prayers are with you.

Dear Robin, Darren & Nikki,
I have never met you, but I knew
your husband/father during his teen years. Please accept my sincere
condolences and know that you are in my thoughts and in my prayers.
I am anxiously looking forward to meeting each of you next week, I only wish it could be under different conditions. God's blessings upon you.

Dear Tolsma Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all...
Carol (Coia) Ruffles and family

Tolsma Family,
We send our heartfelt condolences to the entire Tolsma family. We were so saddened to hear of the loss of a truly wonderful man. My son Brian is a friend of Darren Jr. and remembers coming over to the house and there was Darren showing the overhead picture of the house and lawn online. Brian has never forgotten that. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Keith, Lynn and Jared Wahl
Christine, Brian and Mark Lagree