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David Butler Obituary

David L. Butler CHARLOTTE - David was reunited with his parents, sister and uncle on Saturday, May 24th 2014. He slipped away peacefully with his wife and step-granddaughter by his side. Throughout his life David was known and loved for his kind and generous spirit. Who could ever forget those beautiful blue eyes and huge smile. He will long be remembered as a loving husband, father figure to his step-children and step- grandchildren, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin and friend. He was born on May 8, 1959 to the late Donald R. Butler and Mary Ann Black Butler. He grew up in Charlotte, attended Garinger High School and worked for Butler Service, the family business. In addition to his parents, David is predeceased by a sister Joy Ann Butler Hayes. He was also predeceased by his Uncle Ronald H. Butler and cousin, Ronnie Butler. He is survived by his loving wife, Kathy Butler, his brother, Donnie Butler and wife Donna, step-sons, Matthew and Jeremy Southern and step-grandchildren, Isabella Hillman, Kyla Southern and Eden Southern. He is also survived by his nieces, Natalie and Melissa Butler, nephews, Trey Butler, Billy and Bradley Hayes and Michael Butler, cousins Tonda Butler Bynum, John Kelly Butler and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends who loved him unconditionally. A service of celebration and remembrance will be on May 31, 2014 at 11 am at McEwen Funeral Service, 5716 Monroe Road, Charlotte, NC with Rev. Michael Barefield officiating. The family will receive friends one hour prior to the service. Memorials in memory of David may be made to Trinity Church of The Nazarene, 6031 Tuckaseegee Rd., Charlotte, NC 28208. The family would like to thank the nurses at Presbyterian Hospital-Main for their kindness, support and compassionate care.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on May 28, 2014.

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Tonda Butler

June 12, 2014

My heart is broken once again with the loss of my cousin David. He was more like a brother to me. I have sooooo many memories of David.We were about the same age so I guess it was natural we spent so much time together. Many fond memories growing up with David. We were always very close. He was the first one to pitch in and help anyone, do anything. He had the biggest heart of anyone I've ever known. All the customers at Butler Service, ALWAYS asked for David to come to their homes and service their air conditioners. He was a great HVAC Mechanic, but it was his personality and charm that all loved about David. He loved children and animals. He loved just about everyone he met! I will miss him terribly, but I know that he is in Heaven with My Dad, his Dad & Mom, Joy and Ronnie. Until we meet again Sweet David...I'll love you always!

Your Sister-cuz,
Tonda

June 3, 2014

My condolences to the Butler Family.
M arty Oxman,Charlotte, NC

June 3, 2014

My condolences to the Butler Family.
Marty Oxman, Charlotte, NC

Pat Snider Krajewski

June 1, 2014

Kathy, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers.

KELLIE SLOOP

May 30, 2014

KATHY THE BOTH OF U HAVE ALWAYS BEEN CLOSE TO MY HEART. DAVID WAS A SWEET MAN I KNOW HE WILL BE MISSED I LOVE U VERY MUCH AN IM HEAR FOR IF NEED ME

Shawne Heeren

May 29, 2014

Kathy, I sincerely send my thoughts and prayers for you and David. I know you loved him so, and he will always be with you in spirit.

Cindy Baker

May 29, 2014

Kathy, we are thinking of you and the family. I have known David a long long time, and I know he will be missed. God Bless him.

Lyndy Butler

May 29, 2014

Life is a journey that has just begun for David. Eternity with God now. Only happy, healthy days for ever more.You will be missed until we see you again. Lyndy Butler

Natalie Butler

May 28, 2014

Uncle Davey, I will forever hold you close in my heart. I will never forget the funny, crazy and good times we had while I was growing up. How you were one of the first to be at the hospital to see my new baby boy. How you moved me so many times in and out of apartments. How much you loved us! I always knew you loved me you just had a way of showing it that I could never explain. I could never in a million years ask for a more loving uncle. I will miss you but I know I will see you again. Tell, MawMaw, Joy and PawPaw hello and that how sweet the day will be that we meet again. I love you, David.
Love, your Niece, NatNat

kathie and jacoband misty johnson,king and mote

May 28, 2014

Much love to my closest friends in the world, i will miss your smile and how you were always there for me. I hope you are dancing with the angels free of pain!

Danny Baker

May 28, 2014

We are Sorry to hear about David and we are praying for better days ahead.

Danny and Frenda

Paige Morgan

May 28, 2014

Kathy, I am thinking of you and your family.

Susan@Steve Furr

May 28, 2014

Kathy,Donnie,and all the rest of the Butler Family,you are in our prayer's.God bless all of you,we will all miss David but he is definitely in a Better Place.Love to you all!Susan@Steve Furr

Susan@Steve Furr

May 28, 2014

God bless our Wonderful Friend "BuckWheat" we will always love and miss you.Your with your mom and dad and Joy now. They've missed you as much as we'll miss you here!And Kathy you and your kid's and grandkids now have a Beautiful Guardian Angel watching over you.We'll see you again "BuckWheat" David.Love you my friend,Susan@Steve Furr

May 28, 2014

Thinking of you Kathy and Donnie and the rest of your family, David was a good person and even tho we didn't see each other much, I loved him a Lot and will miss him....love to you all....

Blake Miller

May 28, 2014

You always put a smile on my face,gonna miss you man.

Blake Miller

May 28, 2014

Rest in peace David,gonna miss you man.

wee

May 28, 2014

my heart & prayers go out to all the loved ones he will always be in our hearts sorry for your great lost

Hazel Mitchell

May 28, 2014

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Kathy you and your family are in my prayers.

Hazel

Barbara Deese Rushen

May 28, 2014

I'm very sorry to hear about David. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.God Bless.

Bob & Elaine May

May 28, 2014

Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Sarah Pendry

May 28, 2014

May the Lord Bless and Keep you Always, sweet David. Thinking of you Kathy, praying for peace and comfort for you and the family ?

Sarah Pendry

May 28, 2014

May the Lord Bless and Keep you Always, sweet David! Thinking of you Kathy, praying for comfort for you and the family. ?

Robin Boggess

May 27, 2014

Dear Butler Family,

You are in my thoughts and prayers. It seems like yesterday that we were friends, neighbors and kids at Chantilly. Wonderful memories to always treasure. I'm so sorry for your loss.


Sincerely,

Bonnie Butler

May 27, 2014

My Dear David

I will always miss you.
You will remain in my heart forever.

I Love You

Aunt Bonnie

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