MCLEAN, David Wellington
David Wellington McLean, 62, of Wethersfield, cherished husband of Julie (Roberts) McLean, died Friday, (May 17, 2013) at Hartford Hospital surrounded by his loving family. Born in Waterbury, he was the son of the late Harry and Doris (Olson) McLean and grew up in Windsor. David was a graduate of the University of Connecticut. He also attended The Computer Processing Institute. Left blind by a cancer in infancy, David never let his disability stand in the way of happiness. His zest for life endeared him to family, friends and co-workers. He loved music. He knew music. He played music as a base player in a band. He had perfect pitch, and if you could not recall the name of an old rock 'n roll song, David could. David had a sense of humor, too, and a dry wit. Throughout his life, he was dedicated to physical fitness, whether treadmill, stationary bike or weight training. He and Julie enjoyed riding tandem bicycles with friends. He was a Boston Red Sox fan since childhood who sat in the stands at least a game or two each season, and otherwise listened faithfully to Sox games on the radio. In the days before he passed away, he kept a Red Sox cap on his pillow in honor of his father, who taught David everything he knew about the game. David recently completed a distinguished career as a Data Base Administrator at Aetna Life & Casualty, retiring after 35 years of service. In 1998, the National Business & Disability Council named him its Outstanding Employee of the Year for "outstanding accomplishment in advancing employment opportunities of persons with disabilities." David also lived in Middletown and Cromwell before moving to Wethersfield 22 years ago. Besides Julie, the love of his life, who shared 19 special years with him, David is survived by two sisters and their families, Barbara D. McLean-Pelletier and her husband Donald of Windsor, and Karen M. Curley and her husband Dennis of Enfield; a nephew, Jeff Legere; and two nieces, Stacie Curley and Shannon Curley. David was predeceased by a nephew, Dustin Curley. David also is survived by his in-laws, Jim and Sally Roberts of West Hartford; a brother-in-law, Thomas Roberts and his wife Sandra of Lawrenceville, NJ; a sister-in-law, Susan Grant and her husband Steve of Farmington; and three nieces, Marilyn Voelker, Allison Sterner and Kolby Roberts, and a nephew, Scott Grant.
The funeral service will be Friday, May 24, at 11 a.m. at First Church of Christ, 250 Main St., Wethersfield, with the Rev. T. Michael McDowell officiating. Burial will be private in Village Cemetery, Wethersfield. The family will receive relatives and friends on Thursday, May 23, from 4-7 p.m. at the D'Esopo Funeral Chapel, 277 Folly Brook Blvd., Wethersfield. Memorial contributions may be made to Foodshare, 450 Woodland Avenue, Bloomfield, CT 06002. For on-line expressions of sympathy, please visit www.desopo.com.
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May 24, 2014
It seems like just yesterday that you left us Dave. This past year has gone by so fast. I still miss you, my amazing little brother, just as much as a year ago. I know that some day all of us will be together again. I Love You, Barbie Dee
Laurie Mattioli
May 26, 2013
Julie - heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.I will cherish memories of wonderful times spent with you and Dave when we lived in CT. He was a great guy and I'll never forget seeing him sing and play with his band. XOXO
Andrew Aube
May 23, 2013
I had the honor of working with Dave on various projects at Aetna. He was truly a remarkable individual and I will always admire his abilities. He will truly be missed.
Prakash Patti
May 23, 2013
I was very lucky to have the opportunity to work with Dave Mclean on many occasions for last several years at Aetna. He was always happy to help us, so professional, very resourceful and supportive.
He was such a wonderful individual. He will be greatly missed by me and my team mates and our heartfelt condolences go to his family and loved ones.
-Prakash Patti
May 22, 2013
To my special little brother, I love you, and I will miss you so very much. Your big sister Barb.
May 22, 2013
Dear Julie, Sally & Jim,
How sorry we are to hear of David's death.We know that he and Julie were a great team. We send our love and our blessings to the three of you and to the rest of the family.
Nancy & John Humphrey
May 22, 2013
I got to know Dave at Aetna and since I played guitar we spoke of music while running on treadmills together in the Aetna fitness center and saw his band open for Blue Oyster Cult in Bristol. I was always amazed at his abilities and how he was able to accomplish so much. I hope to see him again someday, until then I will miss him.
Mark Cadrain
Nadine DiBella
May 22, 2013
Dear Julie, Sally and Jim, I am so very sorry that Dave has passed. He really was an amazing man. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and the families. May God Bless.
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