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David William Nelson

New York, New York

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French Horn to Finance
David W. Nelson was a maverick and an iconoclast in the best way, friends and family say. He was also intellectually and emotionally adventurous. "You don't have to have just one career in your life," he once told his mother, Betty. And he didn't.

Most recently, Mr. Nelson, 50, was a senior vice president at Carr Futures. But high finance was not always in the cards for Mr. Nelson, who lived in Park Slope, Brooklyn, with his wife and two children. After graduating from Johns Hopkins in 1973, he became a social worker in Baltimore. He quit a year later after an alarming accident.

"He was shot in both legs as he stepped out of a phone booth," Mrs. Nelson said. "He was looking up an address for his next client, but someone must have thought he was reporting a drug deal."

He fully recovered from his wounds, but decided to move to Boston, where he tended bar and tried to earn a living playing the French horn. "By 1980, he realized that the demand for French horn players was far smaller than the supply," Mrs. Nelson said. He then went to work for his father at Clayton Brokerage, a commodity brokerage in Clayton, Mo., eventually making his way to Wall Street.

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Happy birthday, David, from first time visitors to NY from Scotland. Thinking of your family, friends and colleagues.

David was a great friend and business colleague. In many was, he was my mentor. I like so many miss him and his great attitude.

9th NOVEMBER, 2017

TODAY SOMEONE ASKED ME SOMETHING ABOUT MY HISTORY WAY BACK, WORKING WITH CARR FUTURES AS MY BROKER/DEALER . . . .

I LOOKED UP FROM MY DESK, THEN LOOKED DOWN AGAIN , VERY QUICKLY . . . . WITH GOOD REASON

DAVID, I STILL MISS YOU AFTER ALL THESE YEARS, THE TEARS AND THE PAIN ARE AS FRESH NOW AS THEY WERE THEN . . . .

Remembering you and our days at Dean Witter.

Read about your father as they mentioned his name. So sorry for your loss.

I visited the memorial site this year. It was an incredibly moving and life changing experience. As i walked around the footings studying the names and saying my prayers, I stumbled upon yours. I don't know why but it stood out to me. I took a photo and promised to look you up when I got back to London so that you would be more than just a name on a stone.
I'm glad i did. Now i think of you as a person who had a life, a family and a past. You are not just another victim of a day that...

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With Honor & Respect.

Remembering you today.