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David Starr Obituary

David Starr, age 62, formerly of Concord, NH, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, September 6, 2020. He was a graduate of New Caanan High School in 1975 and received his BA at New England College in 1983. He was a proud member of the Liberty Utilities family for 13 years. David had a larger-than-life personality that was only matched by his unwavering kindness and dedication to his family and friends. He was never too busy to lend a hand and would go out of his way to help others.

Dave was preceded in death by his parents, Robert and Joan Starr.

He is survived by his wife Joyce Burley Starr; sons Justin and Kyle Starr; siblings Richard (with wife Cindy), Jeffrey (with wife Orlyna) and Wendy Starr; uncle Quentin Augspurger(with wife Nody); cousins Deborah Tuxhorn, Gail Rector and Mindy Starr-Pfahler; and nephews Matthew, Gregory, Jeffrey Jr. and Andrew Starr. His booming voice and trusted cowbell, even in a crowded stadium, were unmistakable to those who knew him and inevitably propelled him to legendary superfan status at his sons' sporting events - much to the chagrin of athletic directors and referees everywhere. An active member of his community, he often volunteered his time and skills to improve the Concord neighborhoods he called home for nearly 28 years. To that end, he also committed to his country's future, volunteering countless hours over the years to assist Concord Voting Ward 10. Undoubtedly, his pertinacious desire to donate blood to the American Red Cross helped save countless lives of those who will never meet him. Despite his often busy schedule, he was also a man who appreciated the little things in life, such as smoking a quality cigar and brewing his own micro beer. There was never a task that was too daunting for his "Mr. Fix-it" skillset, knack for improvisation, and unrivaled work ethic. Described by some as a gentle giant, he was capable of befriending anyone and everyone willing to give him the opportunity to reveal his quirky sense of humor and inquisitive mind. The unofficial pyrotechnic expert of all Starr-family July 4th events, he embraced every opportunity to bring fun and joy to the lives of those he held dear. Those who knew him can attest that David spoke often regarding his sons, leaving no mystery as to how proud he was of his boys.

The family will receive friends from 12 to 1:30 PM on Saturday, September 19, 2020 at Bennett Funeral Home, 209 North Main Street, Concord, NH 03301.

If desired, in lieu of flowers, friends may make memorial donations to the American Red Cross "in memory of David Starr" at 2 Maitland St, Concord, NH 03301.

Arrangements are entrusted to the Bennett Funeral Home of Concord. Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at https://www.BennettFuneral.com for the family of David Starr.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Concord Montior on Sep. 13, 2020.

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Skip Alleman

September 26, 2020

When our family moved to New Canaan from New York in 1971, we were all welcomed by the Starr’s who lived 1/2 mile down the street. I started my High School Freshman year along with David, graduating in 1975. Over the course of 4 years we played a bunch of 1 on 1 basketball and I was the recipient of David’s long arm/sharp elbows defense in my face. One year we camped out in his backyard woods during a February ice storm so I could obtain my year round camper award for Boy Scouts. His wide smile and infectious laugh was his trademark for all to enjoy. I am sorry for your loss and wish comfort for the family.

Matt Finney

September 21, 2020

Dear Kyle, I am so sorry for the incredible loss of your father. He was a wonderful man. I enjoyed bumping into him periodically around Concord. We always had a good laugh but the conversation always went to how proud he was of his kids. Please hold close the beautiful memories that you must have of growing up with such a cool dad.
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Susan Kiernan

September 21, 2020

I am shocked and truly saddened by Dave's passing. We spent many summers at New Canaan Summer Theater. Such a fun, funny, warm, wonderful guy! My sincere sympathy to the entire family. He will be missed.

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Marisa Waltman

September 19, 2020

I always loved stopping by his house and chatting with him when he was outside! (I went to school with his sons). He was always so friendly and funny! He sure will be missed! My condolences to his family and friends. Rest In Peace!

Paula Steadman Phillips

September 19, 2020

So sorry for your family’s loss. David was always such a friendly, upbeat guy so quick to smile and give a wave when our paths crossed. Our thought and prayers are with the Starr family.

Bob Camirand

September 18, 2020

Dear Justin and Kyle, First let me apologize for not being able to attend your Dad's service.Because of medical issues in our family and the Covid situation,it would be unwise for Judy and I to attend.Know that I really wanted to be there.Please accept our deepest condolences.Your Dad was a special person.I could always depend on him for anything to help with the Booster Club.He was a passionate fan and he loved watching the both of you play.I don't have to tell you how proud he was of both of you.I coached 37 years and had the opportunity to meet a lot of parents. Know that your Dad would be the captain of my All Parent team.
The best tribute the both of you could do for your Dad is to emulate him.Be a devoted family man and show the love he showed the both of you.
Know that I respected him a great deal.Please share my sympathies with your Mom.They were a great team.
Regrets, Coach and Mrs. Camirand

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