He was born on Aug. 19, 1959, in New London, the son of Patricia P. Finkeldey of Old Lyme and the late George Warren Emerson.
Dean was a partner with Bob Sisk of S & E Builders LLC, of Old Lyme. He was an avid home builder and carpenter since high school; his work was his hobby. He loved to spend time working on his home and property with his family. He enjoyed riding his Harley, "Precious", snow skiing, and boating.
In addition to his mother, he is survived by his loving wife, Kathleen of 25 years; his son, Joshua R. D'Lizarraga and his daughter, Cristine M. Emerson, both of Old Lyme; his siblings, Susan Emerson-Nash and her husband, Thomas, of Lowell, Mass., Edward Emerson and his wife, Sarah, of Salem, Steven Emerson and his wife, Cathy, of Thornton, Colo., and Kenneth Emerson and his fiancée, Patricia Florin, of Old Lyme; and the love of his life, his grandson, Timothy A. Sousa,Jr.; and his best friend, Chris Gulliksen.
He was predeceased by his brother, George Kevin Emerson.
A memorial service will be held at 1 p.m. on Saturday, Oct. 11, in the First Congregational Church, Lyme St., Old Lyme. Burial will be private. There are no calling hours.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in his memory may be made to ECHO Cancer Research Foundation, 330 Washington St., Norwich CT 06360.
For online tributes visit www.mem.com.
Fulton-Theroux Funeral Home, Old Lyme, is handling arrangements.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Sponsored by The Emerson Family.
Ken White
November 13, 2008
To Kathleen and Family,
So very sad to hear of Dean's passing last month. The work that he did on our house in Lyme to provide easlier access for my Mom will always be our lasting memory of him. He worked so hard at a time when it was so hard for him. I will always remember his dedication to his work and customers, what a wonderful man...
Best wishes,
Pat Cannon
October 28, 2008
Kathleen, Aunt Pat, Susan, Ed, Kenny, and Steven,
The memories are endless and all bring a smile. What I will remember the most was Dean's love for his family. He was always there when Mom and Dad needed him. May the Lord bring you all comfort and peace.
Jamie Leatherbee
October 17, 2008
Kathleen & Family I am truly sad & stunned to hear of Dino's passing. I've many great memories of him that will always bring a smile.
Debby White
October 15, 2008
Kathleen & Family,
Dean definitely celebrated his life!!!! I will truely miss him!!! God Bless & keep you all in his arms thru this hard time.
love Debby
Michael Butler
October 15, 2008
Kathleen and family
You are in our prayers
Michael and Laurie Sebastian Fl.
Hubcap
October 15, 2008
Kathleen and family;
It was very hard Saturday to say goodbye to my goodfriend, I wanted to let you know that it was honor to have know Dean and be able to have him as my friend, We have a good close group of friends, so for Dean, lets not let the "episodes" stop, let them continue, because he will be there watching and laughing along with us. It was a sad day for all of Old Lyme, I'm truely sorry.........Hub
Joann Pappaceno
October 14, 2008
Kathleen & Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Dean's passing. Dean was always "family" to me and I loved him with all my heart and will miss him forever.
Joann
Roger & Pam Solek
October 13, 2008
Kathleen and family;
We are so sorry to hear of Deans passing. His beautiful smile and laughter will be missed by many. Our memories of the New York boat trip and the parties on Knotts Island will never be forgotten. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
The Soleks
Taylor and Hannah Knight
October 13, 2008
To The Emerson Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Rich, Joyce Solek and family
October 13, 2008
Kathleen and family:
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Dean. May the happy memories you have of Dean live on in your heart and bring you comfort and peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Dr. Palumbo & the girls East Lyme Family & Cosmetic Dentistry
October 12, 2008
We were very surprised and saddened by your loss. Dean was a great patient of ours who always came to the office with a smile on his face. We always looked forward to seeing him in the early morning. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time.
Rick Battalino
October 12, 2008
My deepest sympathy to Dino's Family and friends. Dean was one of the most popular and well liked kids in school who will never be forgotten. His passing is a huge loss!
Rick Battalino (Class of '77)
Jill Hotkowski
October 12, 2008
The Emerson Family,
Our sympathy, thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Dean touched so many lives, we were lucky to have known him.
Love,
Mike & Jill Hotkowski
Sheryl Stoughton
October 12, 2008
Kathleen,
So sorry to hear of Deans' passing. We send prayers for you and your family at this time.
Sheryl Stoughton (Sarah's sister)
Kevin Bugbee
October 11, 2008
Very sorry to hear of Dean's passing.My thoughts & prayers to his family & friends.
Sabrina Clifford-Thompson
October 11, 2008
Dear Dean,
Dino I will miss your great "episodes" and the laughter. I will always remember you full of life, a jokster, a big brother figure. I could always count on you and Kathleen to open your hearts and home anytime, anyday. I will miss you very much friend.
Love, Sabrina
Maryann Erdman (Labriola) '77
October 11, 2008
My thoughts & prayers go out to all of Dean's family & friends. I know he'll truly be missed.
Matt MacDonald '77 OLHS
October 11, 2008
My Deepest Sympathy to all the Emerson family. It's sad to have to say goodby to another member of the Class of '77
October 10, 2008
Kathleen and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Dean had been one of my favorite customers for more than twenty years. He will be greatly missed by me and the rest of the crew.
Pat&Getch&Chrystal Getchell
October 10, 2008
My Dear Cousin Dean,
To all the great times we had growing up in Old Lyme the fun in the sun at Point of woods and Foleys and staying with mere and aunt Doris family picnics and winter vac and iceskating at your grandfathers pond the wonderful famous family reuions with our outrageously cool family.OH those wonderful high school years,Yes I wish we had more time .May you be at peace my cousin and know we all love you and will miss you Aunt Pat,Kathleen,Sue ,Ed,Steven,Kenny
Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time may you all take comfort in one another and know we are so sorry for your loss we shall all miss him our deepest sympathy love
PattyAnn &Getch & Chrystal
jeffrey demers
October 10, 2008
Kathleen,
Please accept my deepest sympathy. Dean was a great guy, I always enjoyed our time we spent together. My thiughts go out in this difficult time. Please listen to the dean martin cd in his memory for me.
love jeffrey
Gail MacDonald Taylor
October 10, 2008
Pat and family,
Thinking of you; I am so very sorry for your loss.
I remember all those cute Emerson children when they were young & playful.
Janice Gafner
October 10, 2008
So very sorry to hear of Dean's passing. Our love and prayers go out to the Emerson family all.
Edith MacDonald and daughter, Janice Macdonald Gafner
October 10, 2008
Dear Kathleen, Aunt Patty, Sue, Ed, Steven & Kenny
We will surely miss Dean, he was taken from this world much too soon.
He loved his work and should be proud of his accomplishments. He and Kathleen woked delingently on their beautiful home, and we all enjoyed visiting and admiring their property.
Dean was the kind of man that would help you with anything and make it right. He has touched our lives and is part of all of us. There are many fond and funny memories that wil not be forgotton.
Our love and prayers are with you.
Ray, Lee, Heather, Adam, Ryan and Merl
Joe, Steve, Sandi, Karen Gold Star Homes, Inc
October 10, 2008
We are so sorry to hear of your loss, our prayers and thoughts are with you
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