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Debbie, I still remember.
Sande Pascale
September 08, 2025 | East Norriton, PA | Coworker


New York, New York
General Factotum
Debbie Paris, an executive assistant, scheduled her bosses' flights, kept their calendars and managed payments, construction, staff and insurance on their three yachts and several homes — to list some of her duties. "When I needed an autographed photo of Sting," said Suzanne Murphy, a colleague, "I called Debbie. 'No problem,' she said."
When Herman Sandler, president of Sandler O'Neill, bought his yacht, he turned everything over to Mrs. Paris, saying, "Let me know when the money runs out." She did the rest, from hiring a captain to paying the marina. No Problem was his name for the boat — fitting, no doubt, from his point of view, but only because of Mrs. Paris. Mr. Sandler, too, died on Sept. 11.
At home, she managed the gigs for Jimmy, her husband, a rock musician, and was helping him with an album. "She was his muse and inspiration," Ms. Murphy said. Mr. Paris put it more strongly: "She was like my wife, my child, my mother, my best friend," he said. "And I was a husband and father and child and brother to her." Even now he will not reveal her age. "Just say," he said, "she looked 15 years younger than she was."
Debbie, I still remember.
Sande Pascale
September 08, 2025 | East Norriton, PA | Coworker
Debbie, my very last memory of you is us sitting outside on the bench in front of my family´s bakery on 7th avenue, talking and laughing. You were always making me laugh. You had such a positive way about you. May you continue to rest in eternal peace. You were unfairly taken away from growing old and taken away from your family and friends.
Anita
September 11, 2024 | Other
I still remember.
Sande Pascale
September 11, 2024 | East Norriton, PA | Coworker

I will never forget you, Deb.
Sande Pascale
September 11, 2021 | East Norriton, PA | Coworker
There was never a workday that Debbie did not start without a smile. Debbie was smart, kind & crazy funny.
Lee Schultze
September 11, 2020 | Wood-Ridge, NJ | Coworker
I still remember, Debbie.
Sande Pascale
September 11, 2020 | East Norriton, PA | Coworker
Sending our sincere condolences to your family. Debbie is still dearly missed and is always remembered. Daily may God give the help needed to cope.
The Kindred Family
January 04, 2020

I havent forgotten.
Sande Pascale
September 11, 2019 | Blue Bell, PA | Coworker

Hi Debbie,
I personally did not know you, however I just wanted to pay tribute to you. It's kind of funny how I found my way here. I am a senior in high school and we are doing a project on the victims of 9/11. We were told to find a victim who's last name was close to our own. This is how I have found you. I hope you are at peace and watching over your loved ones. I have done extensive research on you and your life and I can tell you had loving family and friends who still remember you...
Lexie
August 30, 2018 | FL