Derek-Vance-Obituary

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Derek Wayne Vance

Watertown, Tennessee

Jan 30, 1984 – Sep 29, 2021 (Age 37)

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BORN
January 30, 1984
DIED
September 29, 2021
AGE
37
LOCATION
Watertown, Tennessee

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Derek Wayne Vance was here.


We will have to check Auburn Elementary to be sure, but as far as I know he didn’t scrawl these words on his school desk. This simple fact remains, Derek was here.


He was very much here on Jan. 30, 1984 when David Wayne Vance and Jane Marie Vance welcomed him into the world. He was here when they watched him learn to walk, and talk, and ride bicycle. He was here when his little brother, Sean, and his little sister, Katie, needed someone to look up to. He was here for all those family trips to the Vance Homestead and to watch NASCAR races with his family.


Derek was at school that day in 6th grade when Heather moved to Auburntown. He was already a part of the community and he welcomed her into it. Derek was here when Heather needed her friend in 2004. He was here (and stayed!) when Heather’s little boy, Reece, peed on the seat of his red 1991 Mustang Foxbody. He was at the church in 2007 when they promised to love each other and build a life together. He was here when he accepted Reece in his heart as his son and for the births of Josie in 2008, Daniel in 2010, and Catherine in 2016. He was here for hugs. He was here for ball games. He was here as he taught all 4 of his children and his wife to play table top games. Derek was here for his family – he loved them more than life itself.


Derek was here only a short time. All of us: his family, his many friends, his coworkers carry with us pieces of him. These memories, stories, and photographs are a testimony to two facts. Derek Vance was here. He mattered. Derek started his next journey on 7:35PM, 29 Sept. 2021


Derek is survived by his wife, Heather Haney Vance; his children, Reece Parker Cope, Josephine Rose Vance, Daniel Wayne Vance an Catherine Mae Vance all of Brush Creek; his father, David Wayne Vance; brother, Sean Nicholas Vance and sister, Katie Marie Vance all of Auburntown; father and mother-in-law, Roy Dirk Haney and Christine Faye Haney of Liberty. He was preceded in death by his mother, Jane Marie Waggoner. Funeral services 2 p.m. Sunday, Oct. 3, 2021 at Hunter Funeral Home with Bro. Perry Whitaker officiating. Visitation 2-8 p.m. Saturday and 10 a.m. till service time on Sunday.

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Your uncle Wayne thought of you and Sean like you were still the little boys he dressed up for as Santa. One of the first things he wanted me to do when we were dating was to meet his Vance family. He loved all of you and was so proud of the man you became, a loving husband and the best of fathers. I know he is with you now, and that he left this earth one year ago this month so Heaven would be ready for you when you arrived to greet your Mom.

I always knew when Stewie had visited my desk when i was away, everything had been relocated or turned in a different direction! Stewie was a young man with many characteristics that would make you smile on your worst days. By now you have seen the light and received your wings and yes Stewie I am looking forward to meeting you again someday! Your friend Brown.

One day Derek's wife pulled into our company's parking lot because something was going on with her van. He immediately went out there to help - they popped the hood - she proceeded to hand him their newborn daughter, and she worked on the engine while he held their baby. I thought: 'what an amazing couple!'. That vision will forever resonate in my mind.
He thought the WORLD of his family. He had such a great sense of humor - he was such a wonderful person.
God bless his family. ...

He was a large influence on many people.

My deepest condolences. Both He, Heather, and children have been in my heart during these last few weeks. May God hold this precious family during this time and days to come.

There are people that come into our lives and our lives become better just for knowing them, Derek was one of those people. His love for his family and God and his compassion and willingness to help others was truly an inspiration. His sense of humor made me laugh daily. He was a kind gentle soul and I am a better person just because I knew him. My deepest sympathy to his family, may God be with you and hold you.

Derek was a genuinely nice guy, showing perfection in all he did. I will miss our early morning conversations and reviewing his impeccable audits! My thoughts, prayers, and deepest sympathy for you and your family, Heather. God bless you all, and Derek.

For the short year that I got to know Derek, I feel like we were 2 peas in a pod or as he would say, 2 fish in the fish bowl.
We hit it off immediately with our combined knowledge of movie quotes and song lyrics for just about any occasion.......which were probably inappropriate at times but so funny to us.
He made work enjoyable with his office game of earworm, which he would often shoot himself in the foot when trying to get a song stuck in my head......but it stuck in his...