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Edward "Eddie" Calderon

Jersey City, New Jersey

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The Entertainer Edward
Calderon was always proud to wear the uniform that marked him as a security guard for the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey, but his feet felt best in dancing shoes. "When I think of him I remember that he loved salsa," said his niece, Desiree Henley. "He was extremely outgoing, loved to dance."

He was the life of any gathering, said his sister-in-law, Sandra Calderon. And for years, he organized a regular Wednesday night salsa party in different locations at the World Trade Center for anybody who wanted to come, said his brother, Anthony. "He liked to act and he wanted to direct — he was an entertainer," Anthony said. "That was his knowledge. That was his calling."

Eddie Calderon, 43, lived in Jersey City and worked at the trade center for 22 years. He was last seen running toward the north tower after helping guide dozens of workers to safety. He was hoping to reach a few more just before the building collapsed, Mr. Calderon's boss told his brother.

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on September 28, 2001.



On his time off, Edward Calderon would often return to his workplace to show it off to friends and family members. For more than two decades, Mr. Calderon, 44, worked in security at the World Trade Center.

When he died in the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks, Mr. Calderon, who lived in Union Township, was on duty as a supervisor in the operation control center and was busy helping others to safety, family members said.

"He literally loved what he did and he would often talk about his training, that he was trained to save lives," said his aunt, Grissel Hodge of New London, Conn. "He knew those two buildings from top to bottom. He felt so confident of the job he had to do and was so committed."

Hodge remembered visiting the observation deck with Mr. Calderon, who beamed with pride when talking about the towers.

"It was like he was showing his own home," she said.

During his career with the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey, Mr. Calderon was sent at one point to work security at Newark International Airport, but asked to be transferred back to the Twin Towers, said his wife, Deborah.

"He missed those buildings," Deborah Calderon said. "He would talk in depth with my son about the way they would sway and that there was no way they could ever come down."

On Monday, Mrs. Calderon was notified that her husband's remains had been found.

A memorial service will be held 10 a.m. Tuesday at St. Patrick's Cathedral in New York City. Entombment will follow at Hollywood Memorial Park in Union.

In addition to his work, Mr. Calderon was proud of his Puerto Rican heritage and promoted Latino awareness, Hodge said. He was one of the founding members of the Port Authority Hispanic Society.

"That was always important to him," said Henry Badillo, an aviation manager with the Port Authority who had known Mr. Calderon since 1981. "He was very proud of his culture and his parents."

Mr. Calderon loved the theater, Salsa music and art, and spent some of his high school years at the School of Performing Arts in New York City.

On Labor Day, he told his aunt that he was working to produce the play "To Sir, With Love" with an Hispanic cast.

Mr. Calderon grew up in the Bronx and after high school graduation enlisted in the Marine Corps. He served from 1974 to 1976.

In 1977, he married his high school sweetheart, Deborah, and the couple moved to Irvington, where they lived for 14 years before moving to Union Township.

In addition to his wife, Mr. Calderon is survived by his children, Jeremy and Ilene; his mother, Ida Bruno of Queens, N.Y.; his father, Vincent of Miami; two brothers, Vincent Jr. and Anthony, both of California; and three sisters, Caroline of Queens, Mariza of Miami and Cathy of Union City.

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Wow Eddie. 23 years. Sorry I haven't written in the last few years. We had a pandemic that affected many things but I'm still going down there. Not just to honor your memory that was so important to your Mom but for me also. While it makes me sad, it helps me put things into perspective. Makes me realize that it's not always about me. Please continue to watch over us. Your kids are awesome! But you know that. Your Grand daughter read your name this year. She's all grown up now. ...

Hey Eddie, Though I don´t have vivid memories of you because I was only 6 years old when you left to heaven, I do vividly remember your positive aura. Thinking of you makes me happy & sad. Happy I had you in my life & sad I wasn´t able to have you in my life for longer. Funny story, when I was a kid I was very convinced you were my Tio & Titi Rose was just your wife because we shared the same last name either way I still consider you Tio. I also thought your name was Eggward I love...

Remembering Edward on the 20th anniversary of 9/11...

DEAR BROTHER MISS U VERY MUCH IT BEEN 20 LONG YEARS BUT IM GLAD YOUR IN HEAVEN BECAUSE IT IS BAD ON EARTH NOW HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A BLESS TIME UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN.

My Bro! Thank you for coming into my dreams on the night of my birthday and wishing me a Happy Birthday! I remembered crying hysterically when i heard your voice that was best bday gift ever. Miss you dearly and we will be celebrating you soon come 9/11 20th year anniversary
Until we meet again ❤

I'm so very sorry it has not worked out for me to post to your page this year. We have had a terrible turn of events with a pandemic causing every facet of every day life to have changed. I went to the memorial last year and it was just a skeleton of what it normally is because people are scared of a virus. Nothing is what it used to be. I never dreamed this could happen in our society and yet, here it is. We will be celebrating your 20th anniversary this year with modified fanfare due...

It's the first year I turned off everything 911. I didn't want to get in a funk. I still thought about Eddie and your family. I was happy to see the notification on Legacy. I know it was from you Tony. I took the two hour ride to Jersey City today. Just to take a friend to get something for her daughter. I thought I'd always love Jersey City. Now I dread even going. Well like every year I wish you and your family well. Mom is at least at ease by Eddie's side. Until next year my friend, peace...

Hi Eddie,

We gathered again today. 18 years now. I was very happy to see your kids come and partake in celebrating you. Ilene read your name. She was very good. And Jeremy was there too. I'm very proud of them. I know how hard it is for them. We went to see your friend John at the pizza joint. He's very old now but still kicking. And he gets ecstatic when he sees us. We could definitely feel you and your mom there today. I am getting to a point where I can now watch...

I remember when we were in the 7th or 8th grade and we were in the West Side Story Play. Eddie came to my daughters Sweet 16 Party with a few of the guys from the old neighborhood.I heard about Eddies heroic final moments. Just as he was about to exit the the tower, a lady screamed for help and Eddie ran back to get her and the tower came down.We lost a wonderful person. You will never be forgotten. Love Aida