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Elisabeth Alayne "Becky" Spencer

Lodi, California

1929 - 2010

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Elisabeth (Becky) Alayne Spencer, age 80, died peacefully in her Lodi home with her beloved husband of 58 years by her side early Thursday morning, September 23, 2010. She passed on back to her Father's presence while diligently undergoing and pursuing treatment for lumbar stenosis.Becky was...

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Aunt Becky I am no longer the Relious Education Commissioner but I choose to give it up
On Sept 23 2011 I went to your grave site with Fred which was also my 60th birthday the flowers were beautiful and Fred held me while I talked with you
I felt your presence while we were there and then we left to pick up Sara in Sonora to be with me for the weekend of my birthday God Bless you Aunt Becky you are loved and missed by family and friends you are the world to everyone who knew you and...

Becky and I became the best of friends from the moment we moved in and she walked across the street with a Boston Cream Pie. I knew that God always intended for Becky to be in my life. Becky was always available for a laugh, a shoulder to cry on and she could always make me hopeful for the future. So until we see each other again my friend. I love you.

Aunt Becky
At Community of Christ Church they decided to make me the Director of Christian Education through 2011
I hope that you will tell your brother Tom our father and your mom Sally and your dad Roy my good news as we all await the birth of the new Tognoli coming this May 2011 also
I miss you sooooo much and love you too
Hope that my news will make you proud of me
Lynne Beckett Tognoli

I still remember when Gerrard and Becky were married in our living room on Central Ave. I was such a young and impressionable child.....it was a beautiful occasion. Becky was always so kind to me as a young teenager I will never forget her.

Dear Gerry: I was so sad to receive your letter, but when I saw the envelope, I had a hunch the message it would contain. Becky and I go'way back to junior high at Central. I was her "campaign manager" once when she ran for a class office. She was a wonderful person and tho we hadn't seen each other for 60+ years I always looked forward to hearing from the two of you each year. I'm so sorry for your loss and I send my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Jeri Hixson Taylor, Indio, CA

Aunt Becky
I hope that you will tell your brother Tom about the news
we have in the Tognoli Family
Your Great Great Nephew Gene will be a father again on May 11 2011 So you will be a Great Great Aunt again and maybe this time it will be a girl What a blessing for this Beckett Family and Spencer Family and Tognoli Family
We miss you Aunt Becky so be happy about the news
Love Lynne Beckett Tognoli

I just heard about Mrs. Spencer's passing and even though I only knew her a short time she was a great lady and I'm happy to have known her at all.
My sincere sympathy and prayers go to her family. May god be with you at the time you need him the most.

Karen Shepard-Watley Sacramento, CA

Aunt Becky
It is an honor that you left us on my birthday
As my Godmother and Aunt I will miss you more than you can know
Growing up I watched how you and Uncle Gerry raised your family and admired how you handled your family
I knew how much you loved our father your brother
I thank you for coming to me lately and have shown me you are okay I see your wonderful smile and hear your famous words of "Luv" when you are done talking
All your Beckett Girls are here and...

My prayers and love go out to family members at your time of great loss. Life is not the moments that we breathe, but the moments that take our breath away. I know you must have wonderful memories of your Aunt Lynne, God be with you always, Gail Reid Van Burgel