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Remembered By
Frank Eck
January 23, 2014 | Greenwood, SC
Photo courtesy of James A. McAlister Cremation
Charleston, South Carolina
Entered into eternal rest on the 14th day of January, 2014, ELIZABETH ANN "Betty" McKENZIE O'NEILL, age 87, resident of the Canterbury House in downtown Charleston.
The relatives and friends of Elizabeth Ann O'Neill are invited to attend her Mass of Christian Burial at 11:00 AM, Friday, January 17, 2014, at St. Patrick's Catholic Church, 134 St. Philip St., Charleston. The Rite of Committal will be private. The family will receive friends from 5:00 PM until 7:00 PM on Thursday, at the James A. McAlister Funeral Home, 1620 Savannah Highway.
Mrs. O'Neill was born in Charleston, on August 15, 1926, a daughter of Frederick L. McKenzie and Sarah Christian McKenzie. She attended Memminger School for Girls until transferring to St. Andrews Parish High School, from which she graduated in 1943. She lettered in basketball while at St. Andrews. She remained a proud alumna of St. Andrews High School and regularly attended class reunions until her last years.
Mrs. O'Neill was the widow of John William O'Neill Sr., who died in 1970. During their marriage, she was a staunch supporter of his career, both business and political. She was also active in church and civic activities, as a member of Blessed Sacrament Church, where she sang soprano in the church choir for many years, and of the Democratic Party. Mr. O'Neill was a City of Charleston alderman during the early years of the Gailliard administration, and Mrs. O'Neill shared in his love of politics, pursuit of fairness for all, and in promoting the best interests of the Democratic Party. After her husband's untimely death, Mrs. O'Neill served as a New York Life Insurance agent and, most proudly, as administrative assistant to Mayor Joseph P. Riley, Jr., during the early years of his administration. She was the founder of the library at Canterbury House, and worked tirelessly to organize and promote it. She made her home in Canterbury House for over 26 years, where she formed countless friendships and where she always felt safe and surrounded by caring and kind support. She was a proud friend of Bill W, having earned over 39 years of sobriety. She believed in giving back what others had given to her, and tirelessly sponsored hundreds of others through the 12-step program. For many years she was a fixture at the Old Central Meetings. She was a voracious reader, and for more than 30 years made the Dart branch of the Charleston County Library her second home.
She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, her parents, and by her brother, Frederick L. McKenzie, Jr., as well as her beloved sisters, Mary McK. Bullwinkel, Sarah McK. Gholson, Rita McK. Jennings, Kathryn McK. Millar, and Diane McK. Cline. Her late brothers-in- law were also a special and much loved part of her life: George Bullwinkel, Sr., Shelbourne Gholson, Harry Jennings, and Edmund B. Millar, Sr. Mrs. O'Neill is survived by her sister, Alice McK. Bunnell of Charleston; her six children, of whom she was famously proud, Peggy O'Neill (Al Watts) of Ashland, Va., Patricia Elizabeth O'Neill DeTreville (Jim), of Charleston; John W. O'Neill, Jr. (Ann) of Columbia, Dennis E. O'Neill (Lisa) of Mt. Pleasant, Cecile O'Neill Eck (widow of Vincent P. Eck) of Hilton Head Island, and Theresa O'Neill Turnbull (Mark) of Charleston. She is also survived by the 14 grandchildren whom she adored, Coleman O. Watts (Elizabeth), of Nevada City, California, Jonathan O. Watts, of Ashland, VA, J. Michael DeTreville (Rebecca), Lauren Elizabeth DeTreville, and Emilie G. DeTreville, all of Charleston, Christopher P. O'Neill (Jenny), and Katie O'Neill, of Columbia, John David O'Neill of Mt. Pleasant, S. Caroline O'Neill of Jacksonville, FL, Charles C. Hopkins of Denver, CO, Sarah B. Hopkins of Charleston, John E. Eck of Hilton Head Island, Rebecca T. Robinson (Josh) and Kevin L. Turnbull of Charleston, as well as six great-grandchildren who have recently joined the family circle, Isla Elizabeth DeTreville and Ellis DeTreville (Michael and Rebecca's children), Althea and Calum DeSa (Coleman and Elizabeth's children), and McKinley and Charlotte O'Neill (Chris and Jenny's children). She is also survived by her former brother-in-law, Ty Cline, and by her former son-in-law, C. D. "Dicky" Hopkins. Mrs. O'Neill was a loving "Aunt Betty" to more than 40 nieces and nephews, and to their extended families. She is also survived by many cousins and their extended families.
Mrs. O'Neill was the grateful recipient of the special care and attention provided by Suzanne Dodds Kuppens and her agency, Home Care LLC. She was also grateful for the care of her physician, Dr. Hugh Durrence, and his assistant, Jean Moore. She passed away peacefully, surrounded by her loving family, in the comforting surroundings provided by Hospice of Charleston Inpatient Facility, as well as with the kind care of its nurses, doctors and staff. Mrs. O'Neill's guestbook may be signed online at JamesAMcAlister.com. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to the Vincent Paul Eck Memorial Scholarship Fund, c/o LCPMA, PO Box 21645, Hilton Head Island, 29925. Arrangements by JAMES A. MCALISTER Funerals & Cremation. 766-1365.
Remembered By
Frank Eck
January 23, 2014 | Greenwood, SC
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May Betty find peace and comfort, and may you all be held in loving arms as you grieve her passing.
Susan Singer (a friend of Maggie's)
Susan Singer
January 18, 2014 | Richmond, VA
Peggy, Patty, Johnny, Dennis, Cele and Teresa - We were so sorry to read of the passing of your mother. What a remarkable woman she was. I remember your mother and father from years past when I would babysit with all of you in Parkwood Est. Our dad and your dad were friends - we lived in Parkwood too. We will keep all of you in our prayers and know you will cherish your memories. May she rest in peace and may God hold her in his arms until she and your dad are together again.
Carolyn...
Carolyn (Garvin) Berry
January 17, 2014 | Charleston, SC
Johnny, Dennis and the O'Neill Family, I was so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I have very found memories her. She was a very fine lady. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Ray Molony
January 17, 2014
My deepest condolences on your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all and your families.
Jimmy B
January 17, 2014 | GA
To my cousins, Peggy, Patty, Johnny, Dennis, Cecile, and Teresa,
My sincere condolences on the loss of your Mother, my Aunt Betty. I share in your grief. I will miss my visits with her listening to her stories about our family history and keeping me up on the best books to read. She is now at peace. Wish I could be there with all of the family. I will be there in spirit. God bless you all.
Love, Beverly Jennings Raschke
Beverly Raschke
January 17, 2014 | Lakewood, WA
My prayers go out to all of you as you continue your journey without your mom. She was like a second mom to many of us, I speak from experience as a classmate of Dennis at BSS and BEHS. She was a wonderful lady. God Bless you all!! Mark J. Smith
Mark Smith
January 16, 2014 | Leesville, SC
Our prayers are with you. I will miss Aunt Betty and all of her stories about the family.
Love,
Cindy (Gholson), Craig and Alex
January 16, 2014
This fine Charleston family was dealt with adversity early and it took the strength of this lovely lady to lead and inspire. Her memory will be cherished by all that knew her and those that have the privilege of friendship with her outstanding children. May God Bless.
Tommy McQueeney
January 16, 2014 | Mt. Pleasant, SC