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Ellen Erickson Obituary

Erickson , Ellen Cecilia 10/30/1996 - 04/05/2017 www.glenabbeysandiego.com

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Published by San Diego Union-Tribune on Apr. 11, 2017.

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Nasreen Nabizadeh

July 7, 2017

Ellen, you were such a beautiful and kind person. Since middle school, I could always tell how kind hearted you were, even in the conditions you were in. You never failed to put a smile on your face or the people around you. Being your friend was a blessing. You taught me to always be kind and smile to others, no matter what situation your in. You were so strong and such an admirable person. Woof, Ellen. You'll always be in my heart. (Our I love you message :)

Susan Paul Family Anguiano

April 24, 2017

May God Bless you in this time of need for you and your family much love to all

Felicia McDonnell

April 19, 2017

I only met Ellen once, at the Panera fundraiser. I was very uncomfortable as I did not know anyone there but wanted to show support with my son who plays water polo with Cade. I walked up to her to introduce myself. She turned in her chair, gave me the biggest smile, got up and gave me the most wonderful hug. At the memorial it became clear to me that I was not the only one to experience this side of Ellen. Everyone did. It was her. She burned a little brighter than the rest of us. It reminds me of a quote by Lao Tzu "The flame that burns twice as bright burns half as long." That could be interpreted as a negative but that would be misunderstanding its purpose. After this flame is gone, it will bring light to a thousand other flames. Light' will be alive, even though the flame might be gone. Ellen may be gone but her light is not.

Hiram Ramirez

April 17, 2017

The world won't be the same knowing the Lord picked up a beautiful soul from this earth. Ellen, I'm truly sorry I didn't put my part in bettering our friendship, but that's ok because I know that even the light friendship we had was beautiful. It was never a dull moment with you and it was nothing but laughter and joy. I truly am grateful for the friendship we had and I pray that one day I may be at least just as half as uplifting and positive as you were. You may have left us from this earth, but you will always be in our hearts and minds. Thank you Erickson family for raising such a wonderful and amazing human being. May God give you the strength to go through this tough moment.

April 16, 2017

Thank you Ellen for keeping me entertained throughout our English class senior year. That class would of been torture without you in it. I loved our silly moments, taking selfies in class and laughing at our teacher. Ever since I met you in 7th grade you've had the biggest smile that can literally light up a room. Hearing all the stories that were shared about you made me realize you held a special place for everyone you met in your heart. Because even when I first met you, you smiled, said hi and gave me a hug because we knew of eachother. I felt so special. Your strong, courageous, loving personality has always inspired me. I hope to live life the way you did. Until we meet again, beautiful ellen

The Cremascoli Family

April 16, 2017

We are so glad that we were able to attend Ellen's celebration of life. Loved hearing all the stories and memories her family and friends shared. I knew Ellen since we were 6 and was so honored to have memories of my own with such an incredible and hilarious person. Ellen and her family will always have a special place in our hearts.

Lexi Quintero

April 16, 2017

Ellen's celebration of life was such a beautiful event. I met Ellen when she was 16 and I was 14 at Seany's Camp Reach for the Sky. Ellen made sure everyone felt loved at camp, and always made sure everyone was having an amazing time. Once we were in teens together we talked almost all the time. I would curl her hair, we'd talk about our future camp counselor names, plan our outfits, talk about our own cancer stories, and just talk and talk until we ran out of topics. Some of my greatest memories are when we were sleeping outside at camp and it started raining, so all of us got up and went inside the cabin and went in to the lodge area and tried to sleep again, but none of us could, so we all waited about two minutes for someone to say something and ellen popped up and said 'anyone wanna talk and watch the sunrise?' and we all stayed up and watched the sunrise together. Out of camp we would always try to coordinate when we could go to sombfab together. Ellen was like a big sister. And I dream of being as passionate as her, as kind as her, and as fearless as her. We planned to be day camp counselors together this year, macaroni & squints, although the plans have changed I know her spirit will be at camp. Ell, your camp family will make sure your legacy lives on at Seany's Cr4ts, may the stars just be that much brighter. I know you are with me and always will be. I will love you forever and always have you in my heart. Everything I do, will be for you.

Tracy Koetter

April 16, 2017

Ellen's Celebration of her beautiful life was a testament to her sweet and kind soul! So impressed by the Grace of so many friends and family (so many young people!) who stood before such a large crowd of people to share their love for Ellen! I felt honored to hear so many personal stories that made us all laugh and cry. Ellen is smiling knowing how many people she brought together! Mike, I love the way you LOVE and thank you for sharing your heart and Ellen's journey with all of us. We are better people because of your sweet Ellen. Forever in our Hearts! Sending Love and Prayers to all! RIP

The Schauer Family

April 16, 2017

We lost a beautiful girl, but the universe received a new beautiful, bright star. Our thoughts are with you all.

Gabby Lucatero

April 15, 2017

One of my best memories with you was the summer we spent together when you were only 14 years old. As we sat on the floor at Belmont park together waiting for the rest of the group of kids to finish climbing the trees and ring the bell at the end of it, I told you not to be discouraged because you weren't able to make it all the way to the top and ring the bell. Of course you being you, and as always filled with a wisdom beyond your years, said to me... "Gabby it's ok. As long as you tried your hardest and had fun it doesn't matter if you don't make it to the end." Thank you for being you, for the life lessons, and for all the love. Your life has brought so much joy to all of us. I will follow your words and "I will try my hardest and have fun." Until we see each other again. Love you Ellen Cecilia. To Mike, Cindy,Taylor & Cade all my love.

Stephanie Barsness

April 15, 2017

I did not have the pleasure of meeting Ellen, however she has had a big impact on our daughter who attended Seanys Camp Reach for the Sky with her! I joined Natasha today for Ellen's celebration of life and WOW! Incredible tribute to her and all the lives she touched. Amy had it right, we will have a WWED "What would Ellen do" sign! That beautiful young lady touched my life and I never even met her.

Melanie Joan Yngson

April 15, 2017

I had the honor and privilege of meeting Ellen when I first moved to California back in 2006. She was around 9 or 10 when we met and I was so glad to have met her on SouthBay Aquatics. When we were 11 and I found out she had cancer I was extremely sad and didnt know what to do or what to say to her but I remember seeing her at a swim meet and she was just smiling as she usually did. And I was appalled and amazed that she could still smile so radiantly. I think after all her chemotherapy she didnt come to swim meets or practice as much since she was recovering and all that stuff but we crossed paths in high school. I was overjoyed at seeing my friend healthy and smiling and even happier when she joined high school swim. When we would pass by each other on campus she would speed walk (limp?skip?) To me to give me a hug and talk. After high school I never really saw her until October 2016 where I heard she was going to the EHS boys water polo game to support Cade and the water polo team and that there was a fundraiser for her. We hugged and took pictures, my face wasnt all that flattering in the picture that i posted on Instagram but I didnt care because in that specific picture shes in the middle of laughing and thats how I'll always remember her. The last time I saw her it was at a swim meet in Coronado and she introduced me to Giselle and Ellen asked me about how I was doing, if I was still with my boyfriend, complimenting on my hair and what other colors Im going to dye it. When I heard of her passing I was sad and angry for not picking up my phone to send her text to hang out or to talk even though I had recently gotten her number, I almost couldn't go to work, I currently work for SouthBay Aquatics the very same team I met her on and almost called my boss to tell him that I couldn't walk onto that pool deck and not think of her, but I thought of Ellen again and I thought to myself "Ellen wouldnt want me to do that she'd probably tell me to suck it up and walk onto that pool deck head held high, to stand tall, and smiling" so I did just that no matter how painful it was to think of her. Although I didnt get to hang out with her as much as I wanted too Im forever grateful and thankful that I got to meet this beautiful silly angel and Im very happy to say that I am her friend and that she welcomed me into her life with that huge, blindingly bright smile. You taught me to smile a little more, laugh a little more especially at yourself and love more with all that you ahve. We will cross paths again Ellen. I love you so much.

Gillian Robinson

April 15, 2017

Thoughts and prayers to the Erickson family.

The Randall Family (Jim, Laura, Zack and Josh

April 15, 2017

Prayers of comfort to your family! Thank you for sharing Ellen's legacy of kindness and love with everyone!

Maria Davila

April 15, 2017

I feel so privileged to have known Ellen for these past few years. Every time we saw each other at swim meets she would greet me with the biggest hug and smile, asking me about my life and how I was feeling. She was unbelievably selfless and cared so much for everyone she came across. I remember running into her a few weeks ago, towards the end of March. She was running late to a nail appointment, but regardless, made time to stop and talk to me about swim, where I was heading to college, etc. Ellen was a beautiful person inside and out, and I am grateful for her positivity and kindness towards me and everyone she met. Heaven has gained an angel.

Brenda Beal

April 15, 2017

Still can't believe you're gone. You are a beautiful person inside and out. I hope you know just how much you are loved and missed, see you soon Ellen.

Donita Smith

April 15, 2017

That smile, that spirit, your EVERYTHING will be deeply missed. Your entire being was so BEAUTIFUL. You touched so many people, your legacy will continue to LIVE on, through everyone who loved YOU. Rest easy, until we meet again, baby girl..
❤ The Nay

Nicole Featherston

April 15, 2017

You light will always shine in this world Ellen! Your smile, your laugh, your spirit! I love you and miss you dearly! Ill always remember meeting you when i first moved into the neigborhood. Going to school with you and meeting new friends, S.O.M.B.F.A.B meetings, disney nights, and always watching your favorite movie, the Nightmare before Christmas.

John 'Toga' Correia

April 15, 2017

A joyful, wondrous, caring, giving soul that showed the world how to treat others no matter what hurdles we personally might struggle with in our own lives. We miss you Ellen.

Missy and Mike Barland

April 14, 2017

In remembrance of your beautiful child, who was, and remains, a cherished friend to our daughter. Your Ellen graced our home with her light and joy. May you all be blessed in the light of peace.

Tomas & Ana & Family Torres

April 14, 2017

We love you forever Ellen Cecilia Erickson!! You left major imprints on our hearts, lives and persons. You gifted us with your vibrant and positive way of living!!! Your glowing light will forever shine through us and beyond. We will miss you deeply but will forever hold you close to our hearts, minds, and spirits. We send loving and healing intentions to your parents, your family and all who are hurting--including us and our son, Tomas, your special friend who brought you into our family's lives. You lighted the way in the darkness when our own hearts were crushed by oncologists who could not give us much hope for survival from that horrid leukemia he was battling. When you were both 13, your forming friendship was such good medicine, for him and for our family. You impacted this world in ways you may never realize. We give thanks each day for your parents having been blessed with conceiving a most rarest type of jewel, YOU!! We walk on with your radiance shining through us and so many. We love you forever deeply Ellen!!

Steve Bass

April 14, 2017

Ellen- you made the people around you better. You are an angel! I love you and I miss you!

The Harrington Family

April 13, 2017

May God comfort you during your time of loss and grief.

Sidney & Elisa Schwarz

April 12, 2017

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

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