Ellis Barry "BJ" Ross Jr.

May your hearts be filled with those wonderful memories and joyful times together as yall celebration those special memories today and always.

Praying for The Lord will continue to give you and family strength to endure.

As another year comes to mark our loss, please know that you are still loved, and we hold on to the memories. Praying for you.

My eyes filled with tears- Reading these eloquent words- what an amazing young man your son is because of course he lives on. I am here at Andover my spouse is the head of school I wish I would have known your son but we didn't arrive until the fall of 2020. What an incredible swimmer what a brave child and young man -a determined passionate human being. You are so right when you say that he lived more In his life than most of us to do. May His memory be eternal.

Heartfelt condolences to the Ross/Withers families

My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Dear Mr. and Dr. Ross,
I am so sorry to hear about Ellis' passing. I had the privilege to teach and work with Ellis at Phillips Academy. He will be missed and my thoughts are with your family.

I am so very sorry to hear of your son´s passing. You have been in my thoughts and prayers constantly. I know you are both so very proud of the young man that you raised - I know from the way Dr. Ross always talked about him he was a very special person.

My deepest condolences to the Ross family.Bj was my daughter's classmate at The West Ashley Learning Hub.Bj was very open minded,and shined a light on everyone around him. Bj had many accomplishments,and will forever be missed!