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Eris Anita Heggem

09/29/1925 - 01/10/2012

Eris Anita Heggem obituary, 09/29/1925-01/10/2012, Spokane Valley, WA

BORN

09/29/1925

DIED

01/10/2012

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Thornhill Valley Chapel

1400 South Pines Road

Spokane, Washington

Eris Heggem Obituary

HEGGEM, Eris Anita

Passed away in her Spokane Valley home on January 10, 2012 with her family at her side. She was born on September 29, 1925 to Helen and Fred Lamphere and was raised in and around Buffalo, South Dakota with her six brothers and sisters. At 5' 1/2" she was on the high school girls' basketball team; she was Valedictorian of her graduating class. She worked in Washington, DC during World War II, and then for Peterson Implement in Buffalo, South Dakota as a bookkeeper. She was adventuresome and enjoyed travel, even at a young age. Eris met her future husband, Peder Royal (Roy) Heggem, in South Dakota. They were married on July 31, 1951 in Boise, Idaho. They moved to Spokane, Washington and lived there to raise their five children. She was bookkeeper for Roy's electrical business, and taught the kids something they fondly refer to as "Heggenomics," as well as some great cooking skills and ways to stretch food to feed a crowd. The family regularly filled a church pew at the first service at Redeemer Lutheran Church, where Eris continued to attend until her death. Eris volunteered with Meals on Wheels as a delivery person for more than 10 years. She was active with the quilt group at Redeemer Lutheran Church, collecting and piecing sheets for quilt backs for the charity quilts they made. Eris traveled to visit relatives in South Dakota regularly; she and Roy enjoyed traveling across the U.S. after the kids grew up; and later, Eris joined a travel group and explored the world with new friends. She especially loved learning about Lewis and Clark's expedition, researching and genealogy, puzzles, books of all kinds, and spending time at the river cabin with family. Throughout her life, Eris had a positive attitude and great sense of humor, and even got more adventurous as she "matured." There will be a void in many lives with her passing. Eris was preceded in death by her husband Roy in 1996. She leaves behind her sister Nora Boyer (Ken); children Aline Heggem-Snow (Gerry), Pam Hibbard (Ken Ross), Scott Heggem (Laurie), Terrie Kralik, Judy Heggem-Davis (Dean); grandchildren Dustin Kralik, Adrienne Snow Rackley (Justin), Sandy Kralik, Justin Fisher, Brian Snow; numerous cousins, nieces and nephews. A memorial service will be held at Redeemer Lutheran Church in the Spokane Valley on Saturday, January 21 at 11:00 am. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in Eris' name to her favorite organizations: Dishman Hills Association, Salvation Army, or Union Gospel Mission.

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Published by Spokesman-Review from Jan. 15 to Jan. 16, 2012.

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jim slavin

February 1, 2012

I have known Eris for over 10 years and have helped her with her real estate rentals in Liberty Lake. We have had many wonderful coffee and tea conversations around her kitchen table, as recently as December. She was, and will always be a wonderful inspiration to me. We will always have you in our hearts Eris!

Irene Heggem

January 20, 2012

Dear Aline,Pam, Scott, Terry and Judy.
You have been in my thoughts and prayers since Auntie Pauline told us Eris was in Hospice and all of you were there with her. I am so glad she was able to come out last summer. I am sorry I didn't get through the crowd to spend more time with her. I have so many childhood memories of you guys coming here or the few times we got out there. I realize as the years have passed, what a strong and special lady she has been. I know you may not see this before the services, but please know my heart will be with you on Saturday and for months and years to come. I am going to send the donation to the Buffalo Museum. With love, and wishing I could be with you.
May God bless and comfort you. Irene

Cathy Beaty

January 18, 2012

She was a lovely, fun, kind lady and I hope I can be as adventuresome as she was with all her travels! I will always remember her smile.

January 18, 2012

We knew Eris through the Inland Empire Tour Company. She was so pleasant, interestng, and knowledgeable. We will certainly miss Eris. It was an honor to know her. Linda Bruseth & Gregg Perrenoud

January 17, 2012

To Pam and family: We want to express our thoughts and prayers for you at this time.
Darrel & Mary Maddux (Spokane, WA)

Dan, Laura, Erik & Natalie Heggem

January 16, 2012

Aline, Pam, Scott, Terrie, Judy and family,
Our prayers for God's peace are with you all. It was great to get to see Eris (also Terrie, Judy and Pam) in South Dakota at a couple of weddings in 2011 and 2012. Laura and I got used to seeing her for breakfast at the Americinn in Belle. Loved to hear about her trips. She was an amazing lady and will be missed.
Our sincere condolences.

Al & Veronica Heggem

January 15, 2012

Aline, Pam, Scott, Terri and Judy. Our thoughts & Prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Aunt Eris was such a lovable giving warm person. Every time we stopped in Spokane she made us feel right at home. She is rejoicing with our Heavinly Father & His host of angels

Marvin, Linda and MaKinzie Heggem

January 14, 2012

To Eris Heggem's family still here on Earth: Our prayers go to you in this time. What a gem of a lady Uncle Roy chose for his mate. It was always a joy to be in her company. She is a great example for all whom knew her. By God's grace, and our faith in Christ, we will see one another again.

January 14, 2012

To Eris Heggem's family still here on earth. Our prayers go to you in this time.

What a gem of a lady Uncle Roy chose for his mate. It was always a joy to be in her company. She is a great example for all whom knew her.

By Gods grace and our faith in Christ we will see one another again.

Marvin, Linda and MaKinzie

January 14, 2012

To Eris Heggem's family still here on earth, our prayers go out to you in this time.

What a gem of a Lady, Uncle Roy chose for his mate! It was always a joy to be in her company. She is a great example for all whom knew her.

By Gods grace and our faith in Christ we will see Eris again one day.

Marvin, Linda and MaKinzie

January 14, 2012

Eris will indeed be missed. She has joined a host of angels in heaven. We thank God for sharing them all with us for the time we had with them. Our sincere sympathy to Aline, Pam, Scott, Terri and Judy and your families.
Lonnie, Joyce, Samala and Solomon

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