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Eunice A. Messick

Media, Pennsylvania

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July 3, 2021
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Media, Pennsylvania

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Eunice A. Messick
October 26, 1928 – July 3, 2021


 


Eunice A. Messick, daughter of Paul and Anne Allison (deceased), widow of Jack Messick, sister of Sandra (deceased) mother of Guy (Lucy) of Media, Kyle of Bermuda and Kirk Messick (Susan) of Malvern, grandmother to seven (Bryan, Adam, Allison, Kate, Kristen, Alexander, and Stephanie), and great-grandmother to six (Reagan, Kendall, Milena, Elouise, Emerson and Oliver), died peacefully at home on July 3, 2021.


Eunice was born and raised in Media.   At Media High School, she was the head majorette in the marching band.  After attending the University of Pennsylvania for art studies, she became a reporter for the local newspaper.   In 1949, she married Jack Messick, also Media born and bred.  In 1956, they bought a seven booth bar called the Rose Tree Inn and transformed it into one of the best known restaurants and banquet facilities in the area.  The Rose Tree Inn was a community gathering place for thirty years.  The nearby Rose Tree Hunt Club inspired a horse racing atmosphere.  Jack and Eunice travelled to Churchill Downs to research the Derby.  All the Kentucky Derby winners, jockeys and owners were listed in the bar area.  Jockey silks were displayed.   The restaurant had a flat roof and lawn jockeys were placed around the edge of the roof.  Each year, upon the completion of a Kentucky Derby race, Eunice would climb up on the roof and paint the jockey silks of the winner.  Eunice served as the hostess and co-manager of the Rose Tree Inn.   Her grace and charm, as well as her business sense, were well known and regarded in the Media community.  Jack and Eunice also built and operated the Boat House Restaurant across the road from the Rose Tree Inn.


Eunice was a member of Rolling Green Golf Club.  She began playing golf to spend more time with her husband Jack.   Her swing was a graceful as her personality.  She had seven holes-in-one. 


Eunice had a zest for life and an insatiable curiosity.  Jack and Eunice travelled widely both within and outside the United States.   After Jack’s death, she continued her travels with her children and solo.   Her destinations included China, Mongolia, Patagonia, Kenya, Tanzania, South Africa, Botswana, Croatia, Latvia, Poland, and Norway, travelling north of the Artic Circle on supply ship.  Her last trip was in 2019.  It was a two week train ride across Russia from Vladivostok to Moscow when she had stage four cancer but never told anyone.  


She was beloved and revered by her family.  She went to as many of her grandchildren’s and great-grandchildren’s sporting events as she could.  When visiting her great-grandchildren in her eighties and nineties, she never missed an opportunity to get down on the floor to play with them.  Their Nanny was precious to them.


She lived life with generous kindness and dignity.  If she had a health or personal issue to overcome she just faced it, without complaint or excuse.   She was born in a generation that faced the challenges of a depression and world war and overcame both.  This is how members of the Greatest Generation faced life.  This is how Eunice lived. 


Calling hours will be at the Rigby, Harting & Hagan Funeral Home, 15 East Fourth Street, Media, PA on Thursday July 15 from 6:00 to 8:00 pm and again Friday at the Middletown Presbyterian Church at 9:30 am with funeral services at 10:30 am and interment to follow at Media Cemetery. 


In lieu of flowers, charitable donations are invited to be made to the World Wildlife Fund, the American Cancer Society or Tyler Arboretum. 


 


Eunice Messick Video Tribute


 


Arrangements: Rigby Harting & Hagan Funeral Home
www.haganfuneralhome.com

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I only can offer my heart felt sympathy to the Messick family for the loss of their mother Eunice. Eunice and Jack were my parents, (Robert and Jan Williams) best friends. I have many warm memories of them both and the many times I visited their Rose Tree Inn as a young boy.

With deepest condolences from, Cousin Richard Haughton Livesey, III.

She was loved by so many who she touched in her life's path. What a fabulous lady!! So glad the family made so many terrific memories. ❤❤

Guy and family. Steve and I send our sincere condolences to all. Your Mom and Dad are back together. Please know that we are thinking of you all and have you in our prayers.

Kyle, Guy and Kirk. I know I do not have to tell you what a great human being your mother was. I will always hold dear in my heart the kindness she always gave to me. I respected her as much as my very own mother. I know she is a heavenly place, earths loss and heavens gain. My love, hugs and prayers to you all.

Guy,
Your mother was the personification of warmth, laughter and grace. She had the ability to make each person she encountered feel as if they were the most important person she met that day - a rare quality that few people possess. She & Jack made the Rose Tree Inn popular because patrons felt they were among friends (plus the food was great!) I was in awe of her ability to remember names - which certainly was an asset to her role as hostess.
As I think of her today, I can see...

Kyle and family, what an example of a life well lived and well loved. It is never easy to lose someone so dear. Hopefully in time the blessings and memories will bring comfort and peace to the extended Messick family and friends.

The love of a mother always stays in your heart. Blessings, Lillian and Patricia Flairty