Photo courtesy of Colonial Funeral Homes - Brick
Brick, New Jersey
Dec 7, 1974 – Jun 2, 2022 (Age 47)
Frederick "Bucky" Esser IV, 47, of Toms River NJ passed away Thursday June 2nd, 2022 in a car accident.
He is survived by his parents Lynda DeSordi, Frederick Esser III, Victor DeSordi and Mary-Anne Esser, his daughter Celina Esser who was his whole world, his siblings Gina Brennan, Jason Esser, Elena Boyle, and Victor DeSordi Jr, and his six nieces and nephews.
Bucky was born December 7th, 1974 in Mountainside Hospital, Glen Ridge NJ. He was raised in Lakewood NJ and attended Monsignor Donovan high school and Brick Memorial high school. In 2005, he started his roofing and siding business, Five Star Exteriors LLC, which he ran for 17 years.
Bucky was a generous, caring, hard-working, and fun-loving guy with a larger-than-life personality. He had a great heart and truly enjoyed helping people. He was there for anyone that needed him - friends, family, and strangers alike. He loved playing his guitar and singing, riding his motorcycle, and spending time with his friends and family. Bucky considered everyone a friend, even those he just met, and he will be missed deeply by all who knew him.
A memorial service will be held Wednesday June 8th 4-8pm at the Colonial Funeral Home 2170 NJ 88 Brick NJ. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to HOPE Sheds Light at hopeshedslight.networkforgood.com.
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Hard to believe it is one year already she your spirit left. You are greatly missed. My prayer is that your daughter and family have found some peace.
Cathy Martineau
June 17, 2023 | Toms River, NJ | Friend
We haven't forgotten. God bless him in heaven! My kids miss you and love you.
Libby Carey
May 31, 2023 | Island Heights, NJ | Friend
I didn't know him very long but wow what a wonderful man. As I read this I am so shocked. Heaven got one very special Angel. So sorry for his family, this is unbelievable.
Cathy Martineau
July 07, 2022 | Toms River, NJ | Friend
Bucky and Lynda, please accept my sincere sympathy as you mourn the loss of your son.
Robert Gill
June 13, 2022 | Friend
I will miss you. My love and prayers will always be here.
Doris O'Connor DeSordi
June 11, 2022 | Family
We are so very sorry for your loss...Please know you are in our prayers. Condolences and sympathies for your families. God bless
Eszter Szabo And Vincent
June 08, 2022
I remember meeting bucky at a Italian restaurant we both worked at as dishwashers. Later me met up again in high school and instantly became friends again. He was one of the nicest people I ever met. Whenever he came to my house he always walked in and greeted my mom with a hug. That was the kind of guy he was. A great dude all around, clearly he was raised by great parents. I'm so sorry for your loss Lynda. Just remember you have a angel watching over you.
Tony "stubby"
June 08, 2022 | Friend
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Randye Philips
June 07, 2022
My deepest condolences to the Esser family. It was a pleasure getting to know you and work for you. Always kind to my employees. You will be missed.
Daniel J Malloy
June 07, 2022 | Friend
