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Michael S. Bilson

Manchester, New Hampshire

May 7, 1961 – Oct 21, 2013 (Age 52)

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BORN
May 7, 1961
DIED
October 21, 2013
AGE
52
LOCATION
Manchester, New Hampshire

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MANCHESTER - Michael Steven Bilson, beloved son, brother, and friend, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly due to natural causes on Monday, Oct. 21, 2013, in his home in Manchester.

Born at Portsmouth Naval Hospital on May 7, 1961, to the late Lt. Col. John G. Bilson and Sumiko (Sue) Ariumi Bilson, Michael was the youngest of two children. He was predeceased by his father, and is survived by his mother; his sister, Gloria Nagel; brother-in-law, Richard J. Nagel Jr.; his nephews, Michael and Brian Nagel; and a niece, Jenna-marie Nagel.

Michael grew up in Hampton and was an alumnus of Phillips Exeter Academy. He attended Colby College and graduated from the University of New Hampshire with a bachelor's degree in Latin and economics, magna cum laude.

A lifelong resident of New Hampshire, Michael devoted himself to a career at the N.H. Department of Health and Human Services. He lived a life committed to serving others at various consumer affairs groups statewide. Michael worked for many years at the Office of Consumer and Family Affairs, Bureau of Behavioral Health, Department of Health and Human Services, as a program planner. He was a member of the N.H. State Behavioral Health Advisory Council, Consumer Council, the Project Advisory Board for the Mental Health Consumer Survey Project, and many additional advisory committees. Michael's passion was research, and he provided extensive informational support to the state's network of Peer Support Agencies and the many individuals throughout the state who were struggling with mental health challenges.

In this work, he inspired others to live as he did, to overcome the difficulties of life by seeking to live more purposefully and with great compassion. Michael persevered through trials with humility, grace, a quiet strength, and a commitment to peace and justice his whole life. Even his hobbies reflected these interests. He read voraciously, researching and supporting causes such as honoring survivors of the Holocaust victims of World War II, defending the rights of mental health patients, and fighting for suicide prevention. He lived a quiet, selfless life that touched many other lives and his loss is deeply felt by his family and those he served statewide.

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services: Visiting hours will be held Tuesday, Oct. 29, from 6 to 7 p.m. and Wednesday, Oct. 30, from 10 to 11 a.m. at the Waters Funeral Home, 50 South Main St., Concord. Funeral services will be held Wednesday at 11 a.m. in the Chapel of the Waters Funeral Home.

Burial will be held at 3:30 p.m. in the Longmeadow Cemetery in Auburn.

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Rest in peace my friend. I still smile when I think of you. You were always so generous and always thanked me for sending you cards on your birthdays.I will never forget you dear friend.I know things weren't always easy, but it always helped to keep trying.God bless.
Frances from Idaho

To Michael family and friends,
I am so sorry to hear about Michael passing away, I pray God will help all on in this trying time. Michael and me were good friends and talked a lot on line. He will be missed by many but never will be forgotten. I love you my friend and thank you for being my friend. We will meet again one day God willing. God bless you and yours Michael. May you rest in peace, love you my brother and like I said we will meet again in the big meeting in the sky. Your friend...

I'm so sorry to hear about his passing. I only just learned this recently and then I discovered this website. He was one of my best friends when I knew him during our teen years. I remember his great sense of humor and sharp wit. He was one of the most intelligent people I knew and he was also a good friend. May God bless you Michael and welcome you with open arms.

Michael inspired many of us in the Never Alone Email Group. He will be greatly missed. Condolences to Michael's family for this great loss.
Beth Stryker

Michael will be missed by many.
Prayers for his family and friends who all loved him.Blessings...

Deepest sympathy upon the passing of a dear and gentle man! Michael blessed many in his short life, may he be blessed forever as he continues to bless all of us!

It was an honor to have served so many years on the NH Behavioral Health Advisory Council with Michael. His contributions were always thoughtful and precise. We have lost a good man. I'm grateful for having known him.

Michael, You will be missed by so many. I was honored to know you - you were a good man with a good heart...a passionate advocate for so many and always there to offer help and resources. I will miss you my friend. All my best to Michael's family and friends.

mike was a calming and strong light and role model for my son. he was patient and helpful. I never once heard him complain, no matter how frustrating the situation. gone too soon...missed forever.