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Gregory Fox Obituary

Fox, Gregory A. Funeral services for Gregory A. Fox, a business executive and community leader, will be held today, Thursday, Feb. 18, at 1 p.m. at Congregation Shaare Emeth, 11645 Ladue Road, St. Louis, 63141. Mr. Fox, 54, died peacefully Tuesday at Barnes Hospital after a four-year battle with pancreatic cancer, surrounded by his family.
Mr. Fox spent nearly 30 years at Harbour Group, the operating company founded by his father. After working in several different management positions, he rose to the position of Group President, responsible for several of the company's lines of business. He loved the work, not only because it was constantly changing but also because it gave him the opportunity to work with different management teams. Greg loved teamwork, and was by nature a team player - modest, unassuming, and reflexive in his willingness to credit others for success. Those characteristics, combined with an ability to be tactfully straightforward, earned him both the respect and affection of his colleagues.
Greg was also an active civic leader. Twice, for a total of six years, he served as board president of the Community School. He also served on the boards of Barnes-Jewish Hospital, BJC Healthcare, the Center of Contemporary Arts (COCA), Logos School, MICDS, Shaare Emeth Temple, Junior Achievement, Westwood Country Club, and Kids Under Twenty-One.
Born and raised in St. Louis, Greg graduated from Ladue High School and earned his B.A. at the University of Colorado. He then spent two years working for the NCR Corporation in California before joining Harbour Group in 1986. After two years at Harbour, he resumed his education by enrolling at the Olin Business School at Washington University, where he earned his MBA in 1990. He became a strong supporter of the school, and was presented in 2011 with its Distinguished Alumnus Award.
In addition to his work and civic activities, Greg loved the outdoors, especially hunting and fishing, and he had a particular fondness for Colorado. More than anything, though, he loved spending time with his family and friends.
Survivors include his wife, Merle Cotlar Fox; four children Matthew, Peter, Megan and Eli; his parents, Ambassador Sam Fox and Marilyn Widman Fox; two sisters, Cheri Fox and Paméla (Aba) Claman, both of Israel; and two brothers, Jeff (Lotta) Fox and Steve (Nancy) Fox, both of St. Louis. They also include his father and mother-in-law, Harvey and Barbara Cotlar and his brotherin-law, Andy Cotlar. He will also be missed by his many cousins, nephews and nieces, and dear friends.
There will be no visitation prior to the funeral service. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions are preferred to the charity of your choice or to The Foundation for Barnes-Jewish Hospital, earmarked to The Fox Family Pancreatic Cancer Research Fund. The Foundation's address is 1001 Highlands Plaza Drive West, Suite 140, St. Louis, MO 63110. Please visit bergermemorialchapel.com for more information. BERGER MEMORIAL SERVICE

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Feb. 17 to Feb. 18, 2016.

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Mary Pillsbury Wainwright

April 1, 2016

My prayers are with all your family. Greg shall live on in your hearts and deeds forever.
God Bless You and Comfort You in your extreme sorrow.
Mrs. Mary Pillsbury Wainwright

Chaya Rosenberg

March 10, 2016

To the entire Fox family,
Our hearts and prayers are with you . We are so sorry for your loss. May Gregory's memory be for blessings, and may he be remembered for all the good he brought into this world. May he have an Eluey neshama, and may Hashem comfort you amongst the mourners of Zion and Yerushalayim,
Sincerely,
Ronny and Chaya Rosenberg(Vance)

kim zacks

March 3, 2016

Our many condolences to the family on the enormous loss of your beloved son/father/brother/husband.

The Family of Gordon Zacks, Z"L

Laura Barket

February 28, 2016

Sending our love and prayers of comfort as we extend our deepest sympathy to the entire family.
Laura Z. Barket and family

Tom McCarthy

February 25, 2016

My deepest sympathies to Merle and the Fox family. Greg was an encourager and inspiration to all who knew him.

February 24, 2016

Dear Merle and Family,
Whenever we saw Greg, we had fun and always came away knowing more - about art, about people, about life - than we did before. We hope that the dedicated lives you shared together will serve as a source of strength to help you carry on in the present.
Adrienne and Mark Hirschfeld

February 23, 2016

Dear Mariyln, Sam, and family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your dear son's passing. Words are never enough, but maybe the following will help a little. Try to let gratitude eclipse grief - gratitude for the joy that Greg was in all of your lives.
You are at the top of my prayer list.
Eugenia Killoran

February 23, 2016

My deepest sympathies are extended to Merle and the children as well as the extended Fox family over the loss of Greg. I had the privilege of knowing Greg for over 25 years and never heard a cross word from him. He was a kind and sweet person who gave generously in words and deeds to his family and community. We will miss him terribly but take comfort from all the pleasant memories Greg provided.

Ira Polon, Washington, DC

Janet Fitzgerald

February 22, 2016

My deepest sympathy to the Fox family. It was pleasure working with Greg in the past, he will truly be missed. Janet Fitzgerald, Charles L. Crane Agency.

Frank Rebholz

February 22, 2016

To Merle and the Fox family,

Very sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed talking and visiting with Greg. He will be greatly missed.

Frank Rebholz III

Jim Deutschmann

February 21, 2016

So sorry for your loss. Praying for the entire Fox family at this sad time.

Michele Isam

February 21, 2016

Please accept my sympathies for your loss. All the best to you and your family,

Jay Orchard

February 20, 2016

All my condolences and nothing but praise for the opportunity I had to know Greg and the warm feeling from My family to have known the Fox family many years in this wonderful city of St. Louis and how Greg touched it.
Sincerely,
Jay Robert Orchard

February 20, 2016

We are so sorry to hear of your tragic loss.
Much Love,
Ruth and Humi
Newton, MA

Lew Allen

February 20, 2016

Dear Marilyn and Sam and the Fox family.
I just heard the very sad news and want to send you all my condolences
I have so many fond and precious memories of Greg.
He will always be here in our hearts and memories.
With love and blessings.

Ij and Toniya Singh

February 20, 2016

We have your family in our thoughts and prayers . So sorry for your loss . May God grant you strength and courage through these dark times

Ken and Abbey Fabin

February 20, 2016

We were so sorry to learn of Greg's passing. Our thoughts are with all of you.

Judy Crowell

February 20, 2016

The oft-quoted "Save one life, you save the world," exemplified Greg Fox's life. Although I knew him but a little, I will always be grateful for his board service to Kids Under Twenty-One, KUTO. My deep condolences to his family.

Judy Crowell

February 20, 2016

The oft-quoted "Save one life, you save the world" exemplified Greg Fox's life. Although I knew him but a little, I will always be grateful for his board service to Kids Under Twenty-One, KUTO. My deep condolences to his family.

Mark Polinsky

February 19, 2016

To the entire family , especially Sam & Marilyn , we extend our most sincere condolences. Richard , Susanne and Mark Polinsky

Jodie and Lennie Neuman

February 19, 2016

A loss for anyone who knew Greg. Our prayers for his entire Beautiful family. We are so sorry for your loss

Davida Layer

February 19, 2016

We are so very sorry for your loss! You are in our hearts & prayers. May God guide & protect you at this difficult time. Randy & Davida Layer

Lisa Liebschutz

February 19, 2016

My heartfelt condolences to the Fox and Cotlar families. I hope you find peace and comfort during this difficult time through memories of many, many happy days shared.

Bette Hess

February 19, 2016

We are very sorry for your loss. He will be missed and remembered as a "mensch" in our community. Bette and Julian Hess

Sharon Fox

February 19, 2016

I am so sorry I didn't get to spend more time with Greg. I will miss him terribly next time the family gets together.

Dan Davidenko

February 19, 2016

Rest in Peace Greg. What a beautiful service yesterday for a fantastic man. My deepest thoughts and prayers go out his family and to the soul of Greg Fox.

Robin and Jared Jonas

February 18, 2016

Thinking of the Fox family and Cotlar family during this tough time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Sandra Scissors

February 18, 2016

So very sad. Sending love and hugs. Sandra Scissors Heymann

February 18, 2016

We were so sad to hear about Greg's passing. We will miss him dearly. Sending our deepest condolences to the Fox family. -Sambo and family

Herb Crosby

February 18, 2016

My heart just breaks for all the family. He was such a great guy every time I met him. Always there with a hug and a kiss for everyone. A better person you will never find. May he live forever in his children...

Betsy Morrow

February 18, 2016

Sending my sincerest sympathy to the Fox family
Ken has always spoken vey highly of Greg and I know that he will be missed by everyone who was blessed to know him. With warm regards, Betsy Morrow

Renee Hartstein

February 18, 2016

Please accept our deepest
Sympathy to both The Fox
Family and The Cotlar Family.
Our thoughts are with you at this very sad time.
Renee and Harris

David Kaiser

February 18, 2016

So sorry for your loss. Greg was an inspiration to all of us.

Rachael Crosby

February 18, 2016

I am so very sorry for the loss of such a wonderful and kind man. He will truly be missed. Cherish all memories and time with loved ones because you never know how much time you really have with them. My thoughts and prayers are with all the fox family.

Paul Baldetti

February 18, 2016

What a good, good man we have lost. Greg was that rare person who could bring a spark of positive energy into every room with him. He was smart, engaging, always upbeat. I will miss him.

Henrietta Greene

February 18, 2016

Gregory were like family to me at Pritikin. You always had a loving spirit about yourself. Love you and will miss you dearly.

Amy Dove

February 18, 2016

Our deepest sympathy to you, Merle, and your children. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers as you navigate the road ahead. Wishing you comfort and peace,
Amy & Doug

Nok Davis

February 18, 2016

To the entire Fox family, please accept my deepest condolences. Greg reached out to me immediately when he had heard that my son was diagnosed with cancer, for that I am forever grateful to have been touched by his kindness. May you rest in peace my friend.

Anthony Stewart

February 18, 2016

Your grace and goodwill to everyone with whom you come in contact with, is a testament to a life well-lived.
My prayers and condolences to your family and love one.

Linda Diaz

February 18, 2016

My thoughts and prayers for the entire family.
May you find comfort and peaceful healing with each other and all the wonderful memories.

Laura Hermann-Filmore

February 18, 2016

So sad to hear the news of Gregs passing. My heart goes out to all the Fox family during these difficult times. So grateful I was able to catch up with him at the cardinal home opener with all the other Ladue classmates. He will be missed by many.

Edward and Nancy Koplar

February 18, 2016

I was shocked to learn of Greg's passing this morning. Unfortunately, I am out of town and will not be able to attend the funeral services, however our entire families' thoughts and prayers will be at the funeral.

February 18, 2016

To the Fox and Cotlar families our deepest sympathies. Anita & Ray Zavack

steve and ellen alper

February 18, 2016

The world has lost a true mensch. May G-d bless your family and friends.

Michael Horwitz

February 18, 2016

Rest in peace my friend. Knowing you and your family in the early days of my life made for great lasting memories.

David Young

February 18, 2016

My deepest condolences to the entire Fox family. Greg was an inspiration to all that knew him. He fought a brave battle with grace and humility. His unselfish dedication of improving the lives of others will sorely be missed. May his memory live on forever.

Lisa Cohen

February 18, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with your whole family!
Greg will forever be in our hearts!
Love,
Lisa & Billy Cohen

Ellen Kagen Waghelstein

February 18, 2016

Sending loving prayers and loving thoughts at this very sad time. May you be comforted by the many memories you shared.

February 18, 2016

OUR DEEP SYMPATHY TO Merle,, the Children, and the Fox and Cotlar family. With love, Debra and Stephen Jonas and Family

Jeff Koebrich

February 18, 2016

To all of the Fox family I am grateful for the time I worked with Greg. His considerate and polite demeanor will be remembered and appreciated.

Judi Sommer

February 18, 2016

My deepest condolences to all the Fox family. I never met Merle or his children but I knew Greg when he was a boy. He obviously never lost the good natured, kind hearted, quiet determination that he had as a child. Memories of his sweetness live on in my heart.As a family, you have so many cherished memories of Greg and I hope they will help you bear the pain of separation. I am so sorry for your loss and send you my deepest sympathy and warmest wishes.

Jane & Don Sauer

February 17, 2016

My thoughts are with you during this very difficult time. May time and the love of your friends and family help you in this long path.

Steven Lieberman

February 17, 2016

Sending prayers and healing thoughts to the Fox family.

February 17, 2016

My condolences to the Fox and Cotlar families. Greg will be dearly missed by many. May his memory be a blessing to all who knew him and may his loved ones find comfort in recalling the multitude of happy days shared.

Michelle Gralnick

Erica Venneman

February 17, 2016

Thinking of you all - may you find comfort in the memories.

February 17, 2016

To Merle and your entire family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss.
With our deepest heartfelt condolences,
Shari and John Crutchfield

February 17, 2016

Greg lived his life with a loving and giving spirit. I send my heartfelt sympathy to you Merle, and also to Matthew, Peter, Megan and Eli.

Maxine Clark

February 17, 2016

I am honored to have known and worked with Greg Fox. He will be missed greatly by his family, friends and all of us in the community who benefited from his wise counsel.Everything he touched was better for having Greg engaged. Love and prayers to his amazing family.

February 17, 2016

So sorry for your loss.

Irl and Sue Engelhardt

George Noory

February 17, 2016

My deepest condolences to the Fox family

Rocky Kroeger

February 17, 2016

You inspired us all, Greg, with your huge heart and love of life, and through your determined fight and brave outlook during your illness. Thank you for all you did for this world. My deepest condolences to your wonderful family. Much love, Rocky

Luke Wetzel

February 17, 2016

Dear Eli and Family:
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you in this most difficult time. Our prayer for all of you is that your grief will be bearable and your memories everlasting.
The Luke Wetzel Family

Anita Greenspan

February 17, 2016

I remember Greg as a warm, caring person who always had a smile and a word of encouragement for a friend. I was very sad to hear of his passing. I know that he will be deeply missed.

Marty Hoessle

February 17, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Greg was amazing and did so much for Community School. He will always be remembered for his service and dedication.

Peggy and Jerry Ritter

February 17, 2016

To Marilyn and Sam and all the Fox Family we send our deepest symphony. Greg and all his family fought this long battle with grace, determination and courage. You are an inspiration to all. We are in Florida but our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Eric & Isabelle Jolly

February 17, 2016

To all the Fox family, all our condolences

Leslie Argo

February 17, 2016

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Mary Sussman

February 17, 2016

To all of the Fox Family, You are loved so much. You are in my Heart and Prayers. Greg is resting in peace his love and strength will be with you always. He was truly an inspiration.

February 17, 2016

Greg was loved and admired by all that knew him! His bravery and endless optimism impressed and humbled us all. No mother or father had a more devoted son! He loved his amazing Merl and their four children..more than he loved himself! We will miss this joyful man and remember how he lead the way in his bravery!
ALL LOVE AND SADNESS, Kimmy and Steve Brauer..STL

Nelson & Cindy Grumney

February 17, 2016

Greg was terrific human being, friend and family man. He was strong and loving, determined and caring, and just a lot of fun! We will miss you and your kindness. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.

Jack Gillis

February 17, 2016

Greg was a remarkable person who always had a smile and time for his vast number of friends. His quiet determination and positive spirit continue to be inspirational. I am deeply sorry and send my condolences and my thoughts and prayers to Merle, Matthew, Peter, Megan and Eli and the extended Fox family.

June Wolff

February 17, 2016

This will be a loss to us forever more. Greg was an inspiration, a pioneer for so many, courageous, caring, intelligent and wise beyond his years. He will live in our hearts always...June and Alvin

Tom and Lucy Danis

February 17, 2016

We loved you and know your fight was strong. Now your world is eternal peace.

Chris Nasrallah

February 17, 2016

So sorry to hear of Greg's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and the entire Fox Family. May they find peace and comfort during this difficult time. God Bless!

Justin, Liz and Stella Keimon

February 17, 2016

Thoughts and prayers will be with you during this time. Greg was a wonderful person.
Much love

Ken Morrow

February 17, 2016

Greg, your courage, warmth and dignity has been an inspiration. You will be missed. Your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers each day.

Debbie & Jack Thomas

February 17, 2016

May the warmth of your beautiful memories help you through this saddnes. Greg was the model of strength, determination and dignity. A loving husband, son and father. We are very proud to have his memory with us forever. Debbie & Jack

Zach Wagner

February 16, 2016

What a great friend and man, I will miss you Greg.

February 16, 2016

As this has been a long hard battle for the whole family, I know peace will be with you all.
My thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone of you today and always.
Sincerely,
Lynn Ferguson

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