Harriet-OAKLEY-Obituary

Harriet May OAKLEY

Obituary


April 9, 1933 – March 12, 2012

Surrounded by loving family, Harriet (Hattie) passed away in the Nanaimo Regional Hospital on March 12, 2012 at the age of 78. Predeceased by her loving husband, William (Bill), she is now reunited with him.
Born in New Brunswick, Hattie had a spirit and determination that brightened the lives of those who knew her. While raising her children she managed to run a boarding house and work in a restaurant. In 1971, Hattie and Bill moved their family to Victoria, BC and eventually made Nanaimo, B.C. their home. Despite many years on the west coast, Hattie missed being with her family in New Brunswick.
Her sense of humour was matched by her compassion and conviction to stand firm in her beliefs. Never judgmental, Hattie was always grateful for time spent with family and friends, embracing them all for who they are.
Hattie enjoyed her Pepsi and evenings playing bingo in the company of Bill and her many good friends. Her pride and joy was her children and grandchildren.
Hattie is survived by 3 daughters: Bonnie (Gerry) Tice; Heather Ewald (Ross White); Lisa (Gunnar) Myhrer; and, son Terry (Jenny) Reicker. She is also survived by her 7 grandchildren, Lindsay, Christopher, Danielle, Nicolas, Paige, Samantha and Dylan and 5 sisters, 4 brothers and extended family back East.
When asked how she was, Hattie always replied "I can't complain" or "I'm still here". You are still here Hattie, in our hearts where you shall forever be.
A heartfelt thank you to the home support workers for their care and compassion. Lisa and Gunnar, thank you so much for all the love and care you provided Mom in her final years.
There will be no service upon request.
"Mom / Gramma, you were such a fun and loving person in our lives and will be truly missed".

This obituary was originally published in the Nanaimo Daily News and Harbour City Star (Nanaimo, BC).

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Lisa, this is beautiful. You were blessed to spend as much time with your mom as you did. Love you, take care!

I enjoyed spending time with Hattie and hearing the many stories she would tell about her grandchildren. She loved her family and was so proud of them all. She appreciated their visits and the many things they did for her. I told her that they were good people- kind and caring- because she raised them that way! She wasn't one to draw attention to herself but she WAS proud of the fact that her hair was still dark, and she'd never had to dye it! We had many laughs and some serious talks...

so sorry to hear this sad news of Aunt Hattie's passing... i will always remember the stories she would tell...may u all find comfort in the love and prayers sent to u all from New Brunswick ...(from the daughters of her brother Ron *Rose Anne, Darlene and Brenda*)

Hi Lise

no one could have describes your mum better

Cal