Photo courtesy of Passantino Bros. Funeral Home - Kansas City
Kansas City, Missouri
Feb 5, 1949 – Sep 26, 2023
Harry James DeFeo, 74, passed away peacefully at home on September 26th, 2023, with his wife and children by his side.
Harry was born and raised in Northeast Kansas City, Missouri and attended Northeast High School. After high school, he enlisted in the Air Force Reserve and completed...
Read MoreA blessing of a man and leader. Linda and Harry put the good word in for me at The Woodlands and had more work than I could do. I ran into him at Schimeca's when we moved back from Fort Lauderdale after 25 years. Still the same charming guy. God rest your soul believer!
Tom Bornaman
November 27, 2023 | Kansas City, MO | Friend
sorry for your loss
MICHAEL TERMINI
October 03, 2023 | KANSAS CITY, MO | Friend
Linda, are family is praying of you, you and Harry have been my friend for over 40 years. He always was a great guy to me and my family.
Tony Romano
October 02, 2023 | Friend
My dear condolences to the Defeo. Harry James was always fun to talk to. RIP my friend
Paul Sorrentino
October 01, 2023 | Lees Summit, MO | Friend
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Sorry I will not be able to pay personal respects
Jack Pernice
September 30, 2023 | Kansas City, MO | Brother
Rest in peace
Jeff Sampson
September 30, 2023 | Shelbyville, KY | Friend
Harry and Nicky were like sons to my dad. When my dad went back to the city market he worked with them. Truly good friends to my family. Sadly missed. RIP.
Joel Spector
September 28, 2023 | Overland Park, KS | Friend
I meet him 4 years ago and in that time I learn how to respect , admire and love him! Great person and I will always remember him as fun and nice person!!!!
Ilyn Zuniga
September 28, 2023 | Kansas, MO | Friend
Just saw Harry at Cascone's about three weeks ago. Can't believe he's gone. He was a very nice guy. Always very nice and cordial to us. We will keep him in our prayers.
Dr. Ross and Mary Sciara
Ross Sciara
September 27, 2023 | Kc, MO | Friend
