Heather Northup

Dear Heather, I can´t believe it´s been 17 years... I miss my daughter... my friend. I hold you in my heart. Memories of you often bring me peace when times are crazy. I miss your sense of humor; I miss our talks that seemed to help us both manage some of our challenges. Love you.

Hi Heather, Yesterday, was your birthday and Mother's Day; I hope you had a good day. I have to believe you, Mom (Nanny) and Skyler are together to carry on your special relationships you shared on earth. I love and miss you all...Mom, daughter, granddaughter...you also became my friends, each in your own way...today and every day. Love, Mom

Hi Heather, You are still very much missed, especially today (July 7, 2023), 16 years after you left us. You are forever in our hearts. Love you so much. Mom

Heather, I miss you so much but I feel like you and Skyler are still with me helping me live my life the best way I can. Tristan and Nathaniel (Nate) are a blessing to me. They are doing pretty well but I´m sure you know that better than I do. I made it a couple of times to the parking lot of the nursing facility where Charlie is staying but I just couldn´t bring myself to go in. I lost courage. Tristan, as much as it pains him to see his Dad like this, got me through the door and to his...

Hi Heather, I Miss You, Skyler, and Mom so much!!! Mother´s Day this year was nice. I did not make it up to the cemetery this year for Mother´s Day (8th) or your Birthday (12th) but Nate was planning on visiting you. I hope to get up there tomorrow (Mom´s birthday - 16th) to visit you all (Mom, Dad and You). I´m working on something for a memorial for Skyler. I hope to plant flowers. I wish you were here to see how well Tristan (He visited you last year before moving to NH) and Nate...

Hi Heather, As always, July 7th is a tough day for me. I miss you so much. I miss Skyler too. Knowing that you two are together, gives me peace. Charlie, is still in a nursing home trying to recover from a terrible automobile accident; he has a long road ahead of him. Tristan (20) and Nate (18) are coping pretty well but I wish they did not have to struggle so hard. Tristan has been trying to keep the finances together; some tough choices have had to be made; we are proud of him. ...

Hi Heather,
I have tried to post before with this picture when Skyler was a baby...I stopped at the cemetery on July 7th on my way home from my visit with Scott and Emaline (6) in NH. Scott and girlfriend Mel (Melodie) bought a house together. Mel has 2 teen daughters and treats Emaline as one of her own. Emaline loves her Mel Mel; I think you would have liked Mel. Emaline is coping with going between her 2 homes , OK.

Brian, Liz, Carter (11), Sophia (10), Kennedy (6) and...

Its been 13 years today the kids and I lost you. We all miss you. And now, Skyler is up there with you. Please look down on us and help protect the boys. Miss you.