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I only knew her a little but I will always remember her warm spirit <3
Debbie
August 06, 2023 | Work


Christchurch, Canterbury
Died suddenly at home on Wednesday July 19, 2023, aged 43. Loved wife of Chris, mother of Caspar and Toby, daughter of Carole and sister of Sophia. There will be a Funeral Service at All Souls, Merivale at 2pm on Friday, July 28. A Live Stream will be available for those who are unable to attend...
Read MoreI only knew her a little but I will always remember her warm spirit <3
Debbie
August 06, 2023 | Work
Just home from a trip to hear of Helen´s passing. I remember her best when she was a lovely bright girl already gifted at all things musical. My condolences and love to Carole, Sophie and Helen´s immediate family. Anna Smith
Anna Smith
July 28, 2023
"Ahh! If my love thy stay could be. If I could gauge thy grief and share it. Could make it less, or help to bear it, How gladly would I watch with thee". Chris I know you´ll recognise this passage from St Matthews Passion immediately. Take care (An old school mate of Graeme´s; I haven´t seen you since you were at College).
Richard Mackay
July 27, 2023
We are still in shock at this terrible loss for Chris, Caspar and Toby. We loved seeing Helen at concerts and parties and will always remember her sweet charming nature and wittiness, not to mention her incredible contribution to the NZ choral scene. All our love. Miranda, Robert, Arthur, Henry, and Jamie.
Miranda Adams
July 27, 2023 | Friend

Miranda, Robert, Charmian, Ursula, Arthur, Henry and Jamie send deepest condolences to Chris, Casper and Toby on the tragic passing of dear Helen. We have so many fond memories of concerts, parties and dinners with both our families, and will never forget Helen's bubbly personality, sense of humour and genuine compassion. Very sad not to be attending the funeral in person, but are watching online and sending our love and support to all. Xxx
Miranda Adams
July 27, 2023 | Auckland | Friend
Dear Chris, Caspar & Toby, I know words cannot describe the loss of a wonderful wife, mother, daughter & friend. My thoughts & prayers are with you as you farewell Helen today. I will always remember Helen as a thoughtful, kind & caring friend with a generous nature. May God Bless your family as you move forward from this devastating loss. With much love. Moira
Moira Clarke
July 27, 2023 | Friend
Dear Chris, We share in your great sadness and devastation at the loss of Helen. A very special person. We greatly appreciated her contribution at the Cathedral and more recently at All Souls. Her loss to you and all who were touched by her is immense. We are overseas and are sad we will not be able to join you on Friday as you honour Helen Shalom. Ken and Tricia Daniels
Ken Daniels
July 26, 2023 | Friend
So sad to hear this, such a bright light gone from this world
Megan Quatermass
July 26, 2023 | Auckland | Friend
Helen, was our amazing choir leader at All Souls Church. Her teaching, dedication, guidance and love of music was infectious. While I knew Helen for a short time, the impact she made on me and my love of singing has been huge. May you sing with the angels, Helen. Marian Harrison
Marian Harrison
July 26, 2023 | Friend