Photo courtesy of Bedford Funeral Home - Bedford
Bedford, Massachusetts
May 21, 1941 – Aug 22, 2025
Helen Natsis Pitarys, of Lexington, passed away on August 22 at the age of 84.
Helen was the beloved wife of James (Jim) Pitarys for 61 years, dear sister of Pauline Barrett and her husband William (Bill), devoted mother of Pamela Benson, Christopher Pitarys, Gregory Pitarys and his wife Susan, and loving grandmother of Matthew Benson, Elena Benson, and Andrew Pitarys.
She was born in Boston on May 21, 1941, and was the daughter of the late Steve and Lulu (Hantis) Natsis, and sister of the late Anna Natsis.
Helen graduated from Newton High School in 1958. She earned her Bachelor’s degree in education and taught first grade. Later, Helen pursued an additional degree at Middlesex Community College in nursing. Helen was a warm and caring pediatric nurse of the Weston Pediatrics practice.
Helen and Jim married on July 12, 1964, and later settled into their dream home in Lexington. Her greatest joy was caring for and spending time with her family.
The funeral service will be held at St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church, 17 Meriam St., Lexington, on Tuesday, August 26, at 11:00 a.m., with visitation at the church prior to the service from 10:00 - 11:00 a.m. Burial will follow at Westview Cemetery, in Lexington.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her memory to Dana Farber/The Jimmy Fund, P.O. Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284 or to St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church, 17 Meriam St., Lexington, MA 02420.
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I worked with Helen at Weston Pediatrics and she was a joy to work with. Always very kind to all the children and made them feel at ease. Being Greek myself we often talked about Greek cooking. She was a joy to be around. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Shirley Mantalos
Shirley Mantalos
August 26, 2025 | Charlottesville, VA | Coworker
Such a bright light! Helen will be so missed at our beloved St. Nicholas church, where she was a devoted member of our church family. She was always ready to lend a hand anywhere she was needed. So much love and prayers for Jim and family.
Rob & Stephanie DeVasto
August 24, 2025 | Woburn, MA | Friend
We’ve known Helen since Pammy and our daughter Kerrin were in kindergarten, over 55 years ago. Those days at Estabrook school and later at social gatherings ( parties, tennis, etc..) were all such fun days. We have so many pictures to prove it, especially of Jim. She was truly a do-all mother. Then later, she went back to college to take up nursing and back to work. Helen was much loved by all who knew her. We will miss you Helen, especially your constant smile and always a kind word.
Pat & Jim McCadden
August 24, 2025 | Lexington, MA | Friend
Our deepest sympathy to Jim and family for their loss of Helen.
Helen a friend of 47 years, was an especially warm person with a beautiful easy smile. Whether you were just chatting or gathering for a party, Helen had ideas. Our memories of their "barn" party, Helen's creative addition to their home party and even our tennis gatherings will always be a welcome memory with many rounds of laughter.
Love and prayers to you, Jim and your whole loving family.
Jan and Ray Haarstick
August 23, 2025 | Nashua, NH | Friend
There are simply no words to fully express how much I loved my dear sister ..she will be sorely missed by many, but she was especially a gift of unyielding and unconditional love to her family Helen possessed untold strength that defied her size and she willingly shared it with others when they were in need What an honor it was to call her "my big sister"
Pauline Barrett
August 22, 2025 | Family
I will forever miss and admire the strongest and most caring person I have ever known.
Greg
August 22, 2025 | Family
We love you Yia-Yia!
Susan
August 22, 2025 | Family
May your memory be a blessing to all.
Pamela
August 22, 2025 | Family
I love you! You are my sunshine!
Elena
August 22, 2025 | Family