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Howard Thomas "Boppa" Baer

Decatur, Alabama

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Howard Thomas 'Boppa' Baer

Decatur

A memorial service for Howard Thomas "Boppa" Baer, 61, of Decatur, will be at 2 p.m. Saturday at Ridout's Brown-Service Funeral Home with the Rev. Charles L. Ricks officiating. Visitation will be from 1 to 2 p.m. at the funeral home.

Howard died Tuesday, January 7, 2014, at Huntsville Hospital.

He was born September 26, 1952, in New York City to Vincent T. and Mary E. Baer. In 1963, the family moved to Alabama, where his father was employed at Redstone Arsenal. Howard graduated from S.R. Butler High School in 1972. He met Kimberly Spaulding in 1969, and they married June 14, 1973. The Baers soon moved to Decatur, opened a dance studio and raised a family. While working as an over-the road trucker, Howard traveled to 48 states, Mexico and Canada. He also managed several trucking firms in this area.

Howard was preceded in death by his parents and his in-laws, Raymond D. and Elizabeth R. Spaulding.

He is survived by his wife of 40 years, Kim Baer; two daughters, Alicia Mullican and husband, Stacy, and Erin Colley and husband, Brandon, all of Decatur; three grandchildren, Mollie and Amelia Mullican and Carl Thomas Colley; three brothers, John A. Baer and wife, Valerie, of Fountain, Colo., Decatur Police Captain Vince Baer and wife, Connie, of Madison, and John M. Baer and wife, Cherokee, of Norfolk, Va.; and five sisters, Lorraine Gardner of Denison, Texas, Mary Baer of Madison, Theresa Schrenk and husband, Michael, of Huntsville, Judy Kim and husband, Hajin of Huntsville and Margaret Gaines and husband, Eddie, of Madison; sister-in-law, Rhae Brock and husband, Charles, of Athens and many nieces and nephews.

Howard played many years with the Huntsville Rugby Club, where he was known to deliver exceptionally hard licks to many a thwarted opponent. He was a raucous and lifelong supporter of the Alabama Crimson Tide. Known to his friends as The Great Embellisher, Howard was known for spinning yarns and tall tales. He particularly enjoyed swapping lies and insults with his best friend, Cecil Cole, over a few cold, refreshing beverages. Howard loved the camaraderie of his friends, who considered him a master backyard griller and storyteller. Wherever Howard went, laughter followed.

He enjoyed gardening, stargazing, Civil War history, the annual Polar Bear plunge, and building props for the family dance studio and performing in its recitals. He especially loved being a grandfather and going on adventures with his grandkids. He was a loving and devoted husband, father and friend who will be sorely missed by all who knew him.

Memorial donations may be made to the Princess Theatre for the Performing Arts in Decatur.

This obituary was originally published in the Decatur Daily.

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May you rest in anusmorphosis, my beloved friend.

I am so sorry to hear about Howard. Prayers going out for Kim and all of the family. Clyde and I just loved bowling with Howard, he was so much fun!

I knew the Baer's from Wellington Point in Rutledge Heights back in the '70s, and really enjoyed them as Neighbors. So very sorry to hear of his passing. Blessings and prayers to the family.

Kim, Alicia, Erin and family:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families during this time.

Doug, Karen, Ashleigh, and John Shumake

Rest in peace Howard, until you his voice. John 5:28

Prayers to Kim and family. I know your heart is breaking and words can't heal the pain but know that Howard brought smiles to a lot of people throughout his life. May he rest in peace and you keep him forever in your heart.

To Kim and family, Howard seemed to be everyone's friend. He made everyone feel special with his endearing sense of humor. Going to Westlawn and Butler with Howard was special with memories of his antics and his love for life. There is definitely another angel in Heaven. Praying Kim for your loss and thankful he has a wonderful family to carry on his legacy.
Karen Watson
Huntsville, a Alabama

Dear Kim and family,
When I think of you and Howard I smile. I hold you in my prayers as you find your way through the long sadness ahead..much love to you.

I have so many great memories of Howard from the 8th grade at Westlawn thru our senior year at Butler. God blessed Howard with Kim. I know he is having a cold one at Heaven's bar, smiling down on his family & friends. RIP Howard.