IRMGARD-WESSEL-Obituary

IRMGARD WESSEL

New Haven, Connecticut

1925 - 2014

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WESSEL, IRMGARD ROSENZWEIG Irmgard Rosenzweig Wessel, a clinical social worker and long-time New Haven resident, died Saturday (Sept. 20) at home. She was 88 years old, and had lung cancer. Irm, as she was widely known, Wessel was born in Kassel, Germany, on Nov. 12, 1925. After Kristallnacht in...

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Irm was my therapist and helped me through a rough time in my life. She helped me get my life together. I will be forever grateful.

I worked with Irm at Family Counseling. Irm was more than a co-worker, she was a friend. Time passes- and tonight she came to mind and that brought a smile to my face remembering my friendship with Irm.

She was a beautiful woman.

This lady is special to me. She was my therapist in New Haven and she gave me hope at a very low time in my life. She encouraged me in my loneliness and confusion as I went through a painful divorce and showed me how to be a strong woman and a loving mother to my then 18 month old. I think of her often and am a better person for knowing her.

Hi Irm, You are often in my mind & always in my heart. As you know from our countless therapy sessions & many phone calls, September has been an emotionally complicated month for me. Was so delighted to see you in person that last time we were together in person at Whitney Center. As the years fly by, you have been one of my touchstones & precious memories. Yes, I have had to do the work myself, for myself. Yet, you appeared & stayed in my life when I needed you most. Thank you & bless you...

A most beautiful woman. Proverbs 31 describes her perfectly.

The Wessels were like family to my family, the Allens'. My mom cared for each of the children, as newborns and I became their babysitter. I saw Irm' as an example of what a loving, engaged mother should be. When I got married, while still in my teens, she provided the money for my wedding outfit and later, sold us our first car. Loved her and loved the family so very much.

Irm Wessel was my therapist when I was 21 years old. She saw me through a divorce, drug issues and taught me the responsibilities and joys of being a single mom. She cared about me at a time when I thought no one else did. She was an AMAZING love filled person and my life is better having had the Blessing to know her.

For many years, Irm was my therapist, when I truly needed someone who could listen with respect, understanding & empathy. Like so many others connected to her in some way, her receptiveness, insight & encouragement helped me find my way through difficult times. Also, her sense of humor, zest for life, & passion for social justice forged bonds with many of us.

So, Irm, I will carry you with me in heart & mind. When needed, I'm sure I will still hear you gently asking, "So, what have you...