Thomas Melvin Stoker

Tom and I went to school together in Abilene. We lived about two blocks from each other and carpooled together;. He accompanied me on the piano when I did a drum solo for UIL. (We got a I.) We lost touch after high school and I had no idea that he was living here in Fort Worth, We apparently moved here about the same time, and my family lived only a few blocks from Arborlawn. Both of my daughters attended pre-school there. I am sorry about your loss, and also sorry that he and I did not...

Pam and family,

When Greg and I first moved to Fort Worth nearly 12 years ago, Pam was one of the first people I met. Our lives were inner twinned for many years while I worked in career services. We have not seen in other in several years; however, during this time, I had the opportunity to meet Tom during his process of cancer treatments.

Although I never met Tom in person, I met him through his postings on Caring Bridge. Through these postings, I met a man who was...

Tom was first a good friend. He stood with us during a tough time in my husband's career. Always encouraging with a hug, a touch, a smile. I still have my "Join us for the 4th" button. Condolences to the family. You have been blessed to have Tom as husband, father, grandfather. God bless you all.
Kathy D Phillips

I met Tom while singing with the Oratorio Chorus and enjoyed community singing at Arborlawn. At our last visit, he told me that he lived near the end of Sayles Blvd, in Abilene, just near the spot where I caught the bus when I walked into town to go to high school and college.
His kindness was powerfully present at all times.

Always will remember the wonderful 4th of July celebrations at First Pres. with Tom, directing the choir and Bob playing the organ.
What a Team. That a Loss. Former choir member of First Pres. Mattie Mattern

My heart goes out to your family in the loss of Tom Stoker. He has been a friend and colleague for several years. He gave me permission to come up to Broadway church and play the earlier organ during my lunch hour, then the new organ after it was installed. He was always an encourager, always humble in his spirit, and a GREAT musician. He will be sorely missed by me, his family, and his church and community. God bless you during this time of loss.
Larry Martin, organist at First Baptist...

So sorry for your loss

My sincere condolences to the family at this most difficult time. May the God of all comfort provide you with whatever is needed so you can cope with your great loss.

Tom's is about the most beautiful obituary that I have ever read. What a great tribute to a "man among men" on this earth. I will never forget the wonderful job that he did shepherding my family through Mom's funeral and interment - even as you all were just receiving the news that his cancer was back. Thinking of you, Pam, and your entire family as you grieve the loss of one of earth's finest.