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James M. Gay

Highland Park, New Jersey

Jun 4, 1941 – Dec 23, 2025

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BORN
June 4, 1941
DIED
December 23, 2025
LOCATION
Highland Park, New Jersey

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James M. Gay, 84, affectionally known as "Jim", was born on June 4, 1941 in Baltimore, Maryland to the late Garland and Irene Gay. On December 23, 2025, James Gay passed away unexpectantly at his home in Highland Park, New Jersey. Jim was the youngest of the four sons born to Mr. and Mrs. Gay....

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I met Mr. Gay in 6th grade (Hart Middle School), he was my vocal music teacher my entire young life before CJS graduation in 1988. Mr. Gay was also a rather swank gentleman and urged us young men to be the same. To this day, I am not sure if he was the reason I tried wearing an ascot or excelled in music theory. He is now one of our missed ancestors. I just happened to be online for something else related to East Orange and found about his passing. He was surely a fine presence to the...

Thank you for enhancing my love of music during my years as a student at VLD.

James was the president of our Douglass HS class of 1959. Most of our class went on to Morgan SU. James and I sang on the choir at Morgan. James was always the 'go to' person when reunions were planned and he attended a 60th reunion for Douglass '59 in 2019. He will be sorely missed.
Our condolences to his wife Joyce and daughter Lisa.

Mr. GAY had a wonderful smile and a gift of being present when you talked to him showing interest and concern. He will be missed. My condolences to the family.

My condolences to Jim's family. He was a gentleman and a model for many young men in EO.

May God continue to bless and strengthen the family as they mourn the passing of their beloved and amazing relative James Gay! He was such a Phenomenal Guy who will be greatly missed! He truly had a life well lived!

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Later Home Boy !