James J. HENDERSON Jr.

Dad you are missed! However, I know you are at peace!

Along with Nana you are my guardian ancestor.

Granddaddy, Your physical absence is still so very present with me. My grandfather, father, mentor, guide, friend, guardian ancestor. You occupy all of those roles when others wouldn’t. You provided for me a blueprint of edifying male presence. Though not perfect, you offered advice and instructions when I didn’t want it and when I craved it but it was too late. Your last conversations with me were instructions on how to expect a man to treat me. You showed me how they should cover me...

A man of presence whose presence was a present that is invaluable. A renaissance man, who modeled manhood in a strong, yet sensitive manner. He was fully developed and yet continued to be a seeker of wisdom and wise counsel even among the youngest of us. He continues to be my protect and guide, my guardian ancestor along with my Nana.

Dad,
It been over 2 years since you left us to join Nana, and sometimes it still seems like yesterday. I have fond memories of all the times the family shared with the exchange of recipes, tasting the many dishes prepared, all the celebrations, and the delicious cookies you baked. I also vividly remember the last 8 days before you left as we were so priviledged to take care of you in our hospice unit. I have very special memories of that time and the conversations we shared when you were...

GRAND DADDY. That says it all. I always wanted to be a daddy's girl and you fulfilled that dream in such a complete and beautiful way. For some of us you assumed the role of daddy when our fathers were not around. And i know without a shadow of doubt the difference you made. A father is a formal role and a biological status. But a daddy is a term of endearment and that role takes time, intention and love.

A daddy offers a shoulder for you to cry on. A daddy does his best to...

I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU
NO ONE CAN MAKE COCONUT PIES LIKE YOU DID
I KNOW GOD IS ENJOYING YOUR COMPANY, MISS YOU, FRANCINA EDWARDS, KEY WEST.

Love you Granddaddy

Uncle Jimmy we were blessed to have you and aunt Leasie with us for so many wonderful years and we thank God for having loaned you to us to impart such great wisdom and love for so long. You are missed but knowing that the two of you are together is comforting. We will cherish the memories of you and aunt Leasie forever.
Love,
Mitchell & Olatha