James "Jimmy"-Harley-Obituary

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James "Jimmy" J Harley

Brick, New Jersey

Dec 21, 1955 – Nov 5, 2021 (Age 65)

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BORN
December 21, 1955
DIED
November 5, 2021
AGE
65
LOCATION
Brick, New Jersey

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Weatherhead Young Funeral Home Obituary

Weatherhead Young Funeral Home


885 Mantoloking Road Brick, NJ 08723


 


James J. Harley (aka Jimmy) age 65, of Brick, NJ passed away on Friday, November 5, 2021.

Born December 21, 1955, in Passaic County New Jersey, Jimmy was the son of the late James J. Harley II, and Deanna nee (Fronzuto).  Jimmy was the beloved husband of 37 years to Teri Idarola-Harley.   He is survived by his daughter, Christine Kochte of Brick, NJ, his son, James J. Harley IV of Beachwood, NJ, his brother Jerry Harley of Totowa, his sister Diane Zirpoli of Totowa and (her deceased husband, Frank Zirpoli), and Jimmy’s granddaughters Olivia and Victoria Phillips of Brick, NJ.

Jimmy was a retired Detective from the Port Authority Police Department.   He graduated the Police Academy in 1977.  He later, graduated from the Port Authority of NY & NJ Police Academy in 1980.  


Jimmy attended Passaic County Tech in Wayne in 1974 and attended William Paterson State College.  Prior to becoming a Police Officer, he worked at Standard Tile in Totowa for many of his young years.


Jimmy became a Police Officer at 18 years old for the Paterson Housing Police.  He
worked from 1980 - 2005 for the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey Police Department.  He retired as a Port Authority Detective with 25 years of Distinguished Service in 2005.

In 1997 he served as a Police Officer on loan to the Newark Office of the Drug Enforcement Administration, Drug Interdiction Investigations with the DEA.  In 2000, he was promoted to Detective, and assigned to the Port Authority Police Southern District, Newark Liberty International Airport.  


Until his passing, Jimmy continued to work part time for Seaside Park Township as a Code Enforcement Officer, and Molly’s Jewelry store in Lakewood.


Jimmy was a patriotic man to the core.  After 9/11, one of the most horrific terrorists attacks on U.S. soil, he spent countless hours and days volunteering to assist in the rescue and recovery operations alongside many other NY/NJ Police and Fire Department personnel.  He was a strong courageous fighter, protector, and caretaker, who lived a life unafraid while enjoying a laugh every chance he got. 


His generosity and caring demeanor as a husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend to all, speaks volumes about his character.  Almost everyone he met, including neighbors and acquaintances, has stories about how Jimmy helped them in some way and how generous he was. 


The Lord decided to take one of his best early.  The deep sadness felt by his family, friends and anyone who knew him, can only be consoled by the knowledge that God in heaven called this noble warrior home to rest in eternal peace.


The family will receive friends on Saturday November 13, 2021, from 10 AM-12 PM at Weatherhead Young Funeral Home, 885 Mantoloking Road Brick, NJ 08723.  Followed by a funeral service at 12:30PM -1:30 PM at Brick Presbyterian Church, 111 Drum Point Road Brick, NJ 08723. The service will be live streamed and can be attended on-line by going to: www.brickpresby.com


The family requests that no flowers be sent.  Donations made to Tunnel to Towers would be appreciated: www.t2t.org


 

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I am sorry that I am just hearing about this. I am brokenhearted that my friend passed. Jim and I were friends at the first meet. We worked endless hours on his house and at 9/11 he was living with me while his house was being rebuilt. Jimmy put in endless hours for the following year. I am at a loss today. Jimmy was a solid friend.

RIP Jim.....gone way to soon. I went to elementary school and high school with Jimmy, kindergarten through senior year in Paterson & Wayne, NJ. We grew up in the same neighborhood. The last time I saw him was at our high school reunion, 20 years, in 1994. We have been Facebook friends for several years, and I just talked to him on messenger back in May of this year. So sorry to hear of his passing. He was a good guy! My condolences to his family and friends

Jimmy was a good friend and neighbor to me. I will miss Jimmy as he taught me a lot and also helped me. Words can not express how much he will be missed my me and so many others. Words can not express how much I can about the loss of my friend Jimmy.

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. You will be missed. Love you Jimmy, my Paterson brother.

Jimmy was a wonderful neighbor in Seaview Village, always helping others, and even using his ATV to 'plow' the snow from the driveways in the cul-de-sac. Watching him re-build his house was amazing. Sad that he won't get to enjoy his beautiful home with Terri and Family. But we'll always think of Jim as we walk by. Stella & Mike

Dear Teri, Diane, Jerry, andFamily,Words cannot express the loss of Jimmy. Not only was he my classmate but Jimmy Kevin Murphy, Greg Frohner, Ron Nafey, and I formed a tight friendship which has never ended. Even in death.We hunted, fished, drank, and caroused together. God bless you're family and God bless a good man and friend,Jimmy. WithLove and Affection, Richie Mania

I worked with jimmy for 20 years at Newark airport . I helped him out with several of his boats and we had really good times. To a good guy and a great friend , you will be truly missed.
Rest In Peace buddy.
John Timochko

God bless

So sad to hear about Jimmy.
We grew up together in Paterson an d went to school together (PCTVHS).
Remember shooting in the woods behind his house( St Michael’s Grove)
God bless