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James Outer Obituary
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James Frederik den Outer, 53, of Simpsonville, SC passed away Sunday, August 27, 2017 at his home.
Born in Patterson, NJ, he grew up in Shohola, PA. He was the son of Jacobus "Dutch" den Outer and Charlotte den Outer. Jim attended Delaware Valley High School. He received a BS in Mechanical Engineering from Villanova University. He worked at GE for 27 years and currently as a Chief Consulting Engineer in the Power and Gas Division. Jim enjoyed woodworking, outdoor activities, and sports. He was especially proud of his Villanova Wildcats. As an engineer, Jim was well-known for always being prepared. He volunteered for Hands on Greenville, Special Olympics, and several programs through GE including: GE Leadership Team, GE Fundraising, Women's Network, Hispanic Forum, and United Way Campaign.
In addition to his parents, Jim is survived by his loving wife, Theresa P. den Outer; a son, Matthew den Outer; 2 daughters, Elisa den Outer and Jill den Outer; a step-daughter, Kristen Moody; and 2 sisters, Annette den Outer and Susan den Outer.
The family will receive friends from 6-8pm Wednesday, August 30, 2017 at The Mackey Mortuary.
A funeral mass will be held at 10am Thursday, August 31, 2017 at St. Mary Magdalene Catholic Church.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the American Diabetes Association, or to a local charity Jim volunteered for.
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Debbie Stack (Nowicki)
September 1, 2017
Dearest Charlotte, Dutch, Annette, Susan and entire denOuter family.....I can't express to all of you enough how sorry I am to hear about losing Jim. I will always remember our families growing up together in the POCONO's and all of the memories of birthdays, cook-out's, alter boy servers, and fishing in the ponds. Rest In Peace Jimmy. God has you in his care now.
Jill Drexler Berg
September 1, 2017
den Outer Family, I'm very sorry for your loss. Jim was a great mentor and friend. He really cared about his colleagues and built a lot of great friendships. He was well respected and well liked. He will be missed.
September 1, 2017
Teri, I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and you're family. I love you Dusti
Judi Lewis
August 31, 2017
Teri I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. May you be comforted by all the memories you made together.
Judi
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Pierre Biehler
August 31, 2017
Jim was more than a colleague, he was an example for his friendly relation with the other and his engagement. He was always ready to help and was attentive to everyone. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jason and Heather Moore
August 30, 2017
Den Outer Family I am very sorry for your loss. Jim truly was a great inspiration to me. He was an awesome engineer and always was willing to help others. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Class of '85 Wildcats
August 30, 2017
JIm,
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face;
the rains fall soft upon your fields
and until we meet again,
may God hold you in the palm of His hand. Godspeed my friend.
Maurice Sullivan
August 30, 2017
I am so sorry for your great loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted "and "comforts all who mourns " sustains your family during this challenging time. (Isaiah61:1,2) With heartfelt sympathy.
Barb Sabath
August 30, 2017
Dutch, Charlotte and Family,
May prayers and love surround you. So sorry for your loss.
Bob
August 30, 2017
den Outer Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, as well as thoughts of admiration and respect while working side-by-side with Jim.
August 30, 2017
Dutch, Charlotte and Family
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Such a nice family - so close to each other.
Elaine & Charlie Maiers
Absecon, NJ
Earl Hamil
August 30, 2017
Kevin has it right - sometimes words just don't work. A great friend and longtime colleague is gone very unexpectedly.
We found a lot to do together in my GE days.
Gods speed friend.
Kevin Sopko
August 29, 2017
There are no words that adequately convey the feelings of loss felt by those of us fortunate to have known Jim.
Nancy and Rick Cannamela
August 29, 2017
So sorry to hear of Jims passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Steve Johnson
August 29, 2017
I had the pleasure of working with Jim in Schenectady in the early 90's We had not seen each other for the many years since then until we ran into each other 6 months ago in Greenville. It was such a pleasure reminiscing on the projects had worked on together so many years ago, and I fondly remember how good it was to work with him.
Bill & Ann Poole
August 29, 2017
Terri, our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. Jim was such a great friend & neighbor. He was always the first to lend a helping hand when we were struggling to plant a tree, start the mower or determine our pond water circulation ratio (only Jim)! And we loved his BBQ! He will be missed.
Love, Ann & Bill Poole
Jim Rollins
August 29, 2017
May God bless all of the den Outer family in this time of sorrow.
Mary Rankin
August 29, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss. It is our loss too. Jim was my friend, and I admired and respected him, enjoying his sense of humor.
Amy Funke
August 29, 2017
We always had such fun at our annual 'shoot out' at the range each winter; Chatting at my desk about roller coasters; Drinking a cold one over at the watering hole and talking kids sports.
I will miss you so much.
My condolences to the family...I am so sorry for your loss. Jim was a wonderful man.
Jay Christensen
August 29, 2017
The world and I will miss Jim's incredible laugh but he and his laugh will live on in our hearts.
Sending the family sympathies for your loss...
-Jay Christensen
They came to gather with him.
Matthew and Charmaine Canham
August 29, 2017
Jim was a great friend, that always made time for anyone. He helped me through some tough times, just by listening and giving me a little push in the right direction. He cared very deeply for all of his family and friends. So hold your glass up high, and listen for that "Santa-like" chuckle...cheers to you my friend, until we share the next round...keep one in the home for me. And thanks for the memories and the happiest of hours. I love you brother.
Lydia Miller
August 29, 2017
May the God who surpasses in love be with the family.
Sheri
August 29, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family! Jim was a very good friend to me and many others at GE! He will be missed dearly by so many people. He always talked about his family and the love he had for each one of you! I pray that the Lord will give you and your children comfort and strength during this difficult time.
denOuter Family at Jill's Graduation Celebration
John J. Harrington
August 29, 2017
My Dutch Brain Incorruptible Friend:
I am deeply saddened to have learned of your very unexpected passing yesterday from your beloved Matthew. You have been a wonderful and loyal friend of mine since our Milford Little League days. As you joyfully enter paradise, you can be so very proud of being such a faithful; caring, supportive and loving husband to Terri for nearly twenty-eight years; a protective, nurturing, generous, highly principled and very hard working role model in your proudest life achievement, as a Father, whose unconditional love for Matt, Jill, Elisa, and Kristen never wavered; a beloved Brother to Annette & Sue; a respectful, thoughtful and loving Son to your very special parents; as well as a supportive, selfless and loving Grandfather, Uncle, Cousin and Friend to so many throughout your admirable life. You were the Gold Standard of being a person for others. You, my dear friend, will always remain an inspiration to all of us that were lucky enough to be a relative, friend or co-worker. Your lifelong dedication & commitment to your faith, family, friends, classmates, teachers and co-workers will be justly rewarded as the Gates of Heaven are now opened in your honor to commence your richly deserved admission to an eternal life of happiness, abundant joy, no stress, no pain and Heavenly peace. After catching up with your family members that have gone before us, please reach out to Joe Harrington and have a pint of Guinness with him so he can join in the celebration of your life so very well lived. I am going to miss you terribly Jim but know for certain that your kindred spirit will remain with me until my very last breath. Please keep an eye on me from above because I will desperately need you to sneak me in through the backdoor of Heaven while my Maker and the Devil negotiate my eternal fate.
"Beter een half ei, dan een lege dop."
Dutch Proverb
"'We must be grateful for what we get, even if
it is less than we desire."
English Translation
Terri, Jim & The USC Mascot
John J. Harrington
August 29, 2017
Terri's and Jim's Wedding Day - September 30, 1989
John J. Harrington
August 29, 2017
Family Celebration of Jill's USC Graduation
John J. Harrington
August 29, 2017
The Courtship of Terri and Jim
John J. Harrington
August 29, 2017
Kim & Kelly ROSSON
August 28, 2017
Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this tragic loss. We loved Jim as a friend, a co-worker and a kind man. Our heart's break for you. Our prayers lift you up & we ask God's comfort to cover you ,
August 28, 2017
We are so sorry for your loss....he sounds like a wonderful man!
Regards,
Christine, Mike and Matthew Cooper
Arlene & Bill Vance
August 28, 2017
Charlotte and Dutch - Words cannot express how sorry we feel for you, your girls and Jim's family. Jim will be remembered by us with our Shohola memories. I'll never forget how happy he was when Villanova won the basketball championship during his senior year. We send our love, sympathy and hugs.
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