James Gray Pfaff Jr.

Jay is sadly missed by his parents, friends and relatives. WE all wish we could have kept him longer and kept him away from dangerous friends.

On a whim and a bout with nostalgia, I googled "jim pfaff." To my amazement and horror, I stumbled upon this obit...God, I hope it isn't little Jay from Bolton Hill! If so, my sincere sorrow to his ever loving dad and my old friend, Jim. from Shelby Toth Lassiter and Kristin

Pat, I am so sorry to hear of Jay's passing. Words aren't enough at a time like this. Just know that Bill and I are keeping you close in our thoughts and prayers. Jay must have been a wonderful son and a very good person. Love and hugs, Nancy TPS '62

Jay, you played with my son, Jon, so very long ago. I am so very much a part of your family as he was with you as you played together.

... grasshopper, these words
from my cpu are not flowers,
only their shadows....

I lived down the street from him for a few years now, but I didn't know James other then a nod or a wave as as I drove or walked by. Its was sad to hear the news the other day. My heart goes out to his family. RIP James.

I will miss my cousin Jay. We lived across the country, but when I came out to visit on the east coast he was fun to hang out with. Jay was a fairly quiet guy, but a good storyteller. He was the oldest of us kids, and I remember how Jay would tell us stories to keep us entertained.

Dear Pat,
So very very sorry to see this obit of your son's death. He sounds like a wonderful person. My heart goes out to you and yours.