James Anthony Rexrode

Very good guy, who I will always remember.

Tony and I enjoyed several years as tennis partners on the Westchester neighborhood tennis team. We enjoyed a lot of success, and we remain friends for many years after I moved away from the neighborhood. RIP Mr. J.A. Tony Rexrode

Tony was a good friend. I once worked for him and he later worked for me. Both experiences were wonderful. I learned from him and trusted him. Quart Graves

Tony and Sandy´s lives were magnificent; they will be missed by all who knew them. They shared their beneficence with family, friends, neighbors, and employees. I was fortunate to work for Tony twice and share Laurel Society and STARs trips with Sandy. They tremendously influenced my personal and professional life, and I will always be grateful to them. Annual Christmas calls were a joy; I will miss them terribly. Your family is so fortunate to have your joyous memories and know that...

Tiny and I were long time friends and Shell marketing associates. Shared many of the same corporate experiences.... always enjoyable to be with. Fair well old friend Dick Garnett

Dear Carrie and family - I'm so sorry for your loss. I last saw Tony at one of those Shell reunions - was it 2008 or 2012? The years are melding together - it was a boat ride in CA along with my dad, Richard "Birk" Birkinshaw and Stan Curtis, among other dear family and friends. Anyway, it was great seeing your dad and he was still his wickedly funny self, of course. Even though Tony had a long and rich life, it is still difficult to lose a parent, I do know, as we lost our mother years...

I first met Tony during my stint with Shell retail in Indianapolis, later we worked together in Shell lubricants. I enjoyed the times we rode together to various customer locations. I remember Tony as a no BS kind of guy and respected his opinions and suggestions. I will miss him and remember him.

Tony was my boss in New Jersey and attended my wedding. One of the best ever. Don Caivano