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James Sands Jr.

Bricktown, New Jersey

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Underwater Encounters

The four-foot-long grouper was guarding her baby as James Sands Jr. and his wife, Jennifer, swam by in their scuba- diving suits earlier this year, 75 feet below the surface of the Caribbean Sea at Grand Cayman. It was a tense moment, both for the grouper and for Mr. Sands, a budding underwater photographer. The mother fish gave what is known as a grouper shimmy, and the Sandses took their leave, but not before Mr. Sands captured the rare moment on film.

The picture joined a gallery of his work that included a close-up of a barracuda and a portrait of a moray eel baring its teeth.

Mr. Sands, 38, spent most days well above sea level on the 103rd floor of 1 World Trade Center, where he worked as a software engineer for eSpeed. But he was happiest underwater.

The Sandses lived blocks from each other most of their lives but didn't meet until a dating service set them up on a blind date in 1995. They began diving about three years ago, and Mr. Sands had only recently discovered his flair for photographing fish. "They basically just posed for him; it was amazing to watch," Mrs. Sands said.

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First met Jim at Optimark, and I very clearly remember he made sure I felt comfortable coming from Canada. Over subsequent visits I found him to be very friendly. One time I was scheduled to fly out in the evening and the weather had turned bad and he was concerned and made sure I left early in the day so I wouldn't miss my flight. I found him to be a very caring human being.

Jim and Paul have always been in my thoughts, and specially on this day every year my heart feels heavier....

I am sure the Lord is taking great care of Jim. And I really liked the photos that his spouse posted on this memorial page of his travels. Thanks for sharing.

sending our deep thoughts of sympathy to your family for your loss. Words will never remove the pain of losing someone loved. With each new day may God continue to give the needed strength to cope. Jim touched the lives of others in a positive way and will always be missed.

Moray Eel (Grand Cayman). Photo by Jim Sands

Barracuda (Grand Cayman), no zoom lens used. Photo by Jim Sands

Jim and Jennifer, Thanksgiving 1999

Spotted Puffer fish (posing and smiling for the photo). Photo by Jim Sands

Christmas Tree Worm (Bonaire), extremely difficult to photograph. Photo by Jim Sands

Dive buddies underwater on their 5th wedding anniversary, May 4 ,2001