Jay C. Ducharme

Nel, I know it's been a while, but I just wanted to say how truly sorry I am for your loss. Jay sounded like a very special guy who was lucky enough to have loved you for the time he was here. He was also lucky to have had you love him. He will forever be your guardian angel watching over you and keeping you safe.

Nelia, so sorry for losing your soul mate. I know how much you two loved each other. He always talked about how happy he was to be marrying you and looked foward to your lives together.
You will be in my prayers.

Nel-
I would just like to start off by saying that I am very sorry for your loss. Jay was a GREAT guy and will definately be missed. When I think of Jay, I think of his smile and how his eyes would brighten up when he talked about you. I think of the great times we had at the Christmas Party, making dinner for the boys, and watching gory movies! Our Friday nights out were definately the highlight of my weekend! Jay loved you more than anything, and it showed. When he'd look at you, his...

First of all I want to thank everyone who has already written such beautiful words about Jay in his guest book and also to those who will. It means so much to both his father (Larry) and myself to know just how many people loved and cared about our son.
A letter to Jay from his Mom:
Dear Jay,
All during my pregnancy you were stubborn--you wanted to keep your head under my right breast and not be in the proper position. You did not want me to see you on the ultrasound but...

Nelia-
I am very saddened to hear of this tragedy. Despite never getting the opportunity to meet Jay, I know he is a great person just by the way you talked about him. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Nelia and your family
I never met Jay. I know how much he meant you. Words can express how deeply sorry for your loss.But i am a friend of your family.

Nelia and your family
I never met Jay. I know how much he meant you. Words can express how deeply sorry for your loss.But i am a friend of your family.

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A big thanks to all of you and your kind words.
Jay, I miss you more then anything and will hold you in my heart forever.
Good night and may you finally be at peace with God.
Love you Sparky.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all on your loss of such a young and a special person...I served in Iraq with him in the 115th and did not know him well but he was a hero in all he did over there with us. God has a special place for him I am sure..My deepest sympathy for a special person who gave alot for his country and served with pride...God bless you all...