Jay M. Ring

I just learned of Jay's death and am sorry. I used to go to Sunday School with him and last saw him in ~1999. He was a man of uncommon character and a gentle giant of a man. My belated condolences.

Lisa,

I was so sorry to return to work this morning and learn of Jay's passing. My heart is full with memories and prayers for you, Rebecca, and your family.

Love,
Shauna

Lisa,
Meg and I were out of town over the past week and I just heard about Jay from Jerry at grand rounds. I am so sorry and I didn't even know what you were going through. Our prayers are with you and your daughter & family.
Fred

Lisa and Bekki,

My heartfelt condolences to both of you. Jay was a special person and will always be remembered as
a truelly good friend even though
we did not talk to each other regularly. The great memories of our times together at Wash U will always be with me the rest of my life. I wish only the best for the two of you.

Warmest Regards,

Steven Goldy

What a great person. He took care of me when we were schoolboys; befriended and protected me. Kind and refined.

Jay was a very special man.

He planned for the future, but enjoyed the present. He was a serious person, but saw humor in everyday life. He expressed criticism gently.

As Don observed, Jay would melt whenever Rebecca came in the room.
Once when I tried to warn Rebecca about how hard a field journalism is, he waved me away: "Let her dream." What a lovely thing for a father to say!

Of course, Jay adored everything about Lisa, strengths and weaknesses alike....

I wish we could all have the same perspective regarding life that Jay did. I believe we would be completely happy as Jay always was. It did help that he found the love of his life in you Lisa. You and Rebecca were his loves and enjoyment. It was so easy to see that. I feel wonderfully blessed that I knew Jay and feel I have gained some insight into how to silently appreciate the things in life that are most important. My prayers are with you and Rebecca to keep strong and remember those...

A friend just told me of Jay's passing. Jay lived on my floor when I was freshman at Wash U.(he was a sophomore). He was a vibrant, smart & athletic guy. He was also very kind and had a warm heart; he helped us freshman integrate into college. I am dismayed at his passing and send heartfelt condolences to Lisa (his girlfriend way back then in 1973) and Jay's family.

Jay was truly one of the kindest people I have ever known. Not only was he my cousin, but also my friend. I miss him already.

Love,
Carol