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November 13, 2014
I am so sorry to hear of Jay's passing. My condolences to the family.
-Tracy LaChance
November 9, 2014
arnold and nancy alexander
Richard & Jessie Osborne
November 1, 2014
Jay was a great mentor and a supporter of many causes. We thank him for supporting the girls softball league in Concord. Our daughters both played for Concord Cleaners and enjoyed it immensely.
Eric Mann
November 1, 2014
So sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of Uncle Jay.
Hope and Brian Matthews
November 1, 2014
We are so sorry for your loss. Jay was such a wonderful man with a very kind heart. We got to know him more personally through Rotary. We have wonderful memories of many laughs and a particular ride around the track with him at NHIS. It was a hoot! He was a valuable asset to the community of Concord. He will be missed but what he did for Concord will long be remembered.
November 1, 2014
Jay and I met when I moved to Brookline, Mass at the age of 10. We were both in the same 5th grade class. He was a warm welcoming friend at that time and clearly continued to be so throughout his life.
A couple of interesting and fun vignettes: (1)There was a large roll down map of the blood vessels in the human body in, I believe, the 6th grade class. Whenever that was pulled down Jay would, totally predictably, pass out. (2) To the envy of myself and the rest of the males, he was voted the handsomest in Brookline High class of 1945.
My deep condolences to Barbara and the rest of the family for their very painful loss.
Leon I. Sones, M.D.
Los Angeles, CA
LARRY KONTOS
November 1, 2014
I remember Jay from Concord Cleaners as being a very quiet conversationalist of the topics of the day, always thinking and never backing away from all we were sharing about even though he had a thousand things to do! I really liked that in him and within him. To His Family, may His Memory be Eternal. Bless.
October 31, 2014
Dear Barbara,
When we read about Jay in the Globe it was inconceivable that we had reached this stage in life. Our vision of you enjoying retirement in New Hampshire was shattered by the reality of illness and life style change.However,along with the bitter comes the sweet.Your beautiful memories,amazing family and many achievements will remain. Now that we have reconnected with you Charlie and I want you to be part of our lives and continue our friendship. It is a time of nostalgia for all of us. Our hearts go out to you and your family.
Helaine and Charlie Morrill
Debbie Farmer
October 31, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked for Jay many years as did my husband when he first came home from the service. We are thankful for his kindness as well. Sincerely,
Anne McCoy- Masamba
October 31, 2014
Dearest Barbara,
I am so glad for our visits in the past few years. It gave me the opportunity to tell you and Jay in person how my teen years of caring for your beautiful children translated into an extraordinary influence on my life. I am so glad too that my children as youngsters had the opportunity to spend some time with you and Jay. And then what an absolute joy to introduce some of my grandchildren to you. Watching their carefree play at the lake with the same exuberance their parents had forty or so years before playing at the Marblehead house, was surreal. Even more so when remembering the years watching over your children there. "Who are they again?" One of my grandchildren asked me at one point. "Oh, let me tell you..." And the saga about those years began again with another generation. My heart is with you and the family at this time Barbara. Be comforted in knowing that so many of us who knew him will remember his, and your, compassion and kindness. Our lives have been abundantly enriched because of knowing you both.
With love and the fondest of memories. Anne McCoy Masamba
Sonja Kuftinec
October 30, 2014
Jay was one of the first Dartmouth parents that I met. I still recall our convening at the BEMA. I also remembered being kidnapped by Micah to his Sunapee home before being invited to my first ever Seder at Dartmouth. Jay and Barbara and the whole Rosenfield clan so graciously hosted me on so many occasions at the Lake and at Dartmouth. Including of course the wedding of Micah and my friend Kirstie. What a pleasure it was to keep spending time together with that growing family and to see the Rosenfield clan all together at Asa's Bar Mitzvah. And to drink red wine and talk about Marx. Micah was always more than a singular college friend but a friend networked in a family. Jay was the loving and benevolent patriarch of a brood with so many ties to my life. You will be missed. And live on in your children, grand-children, and great grand-children to come.
October 28, 2014
I'll always have fond memories of long weekend days on Lake Sunapee with Uncle Jay and his brood. Always game for a good politics discussion, which was right up my alley. RIP. -Dan Tarlin
October 28, 2014
Dearest Barbara and family, I have the most wonderful memories of Jay as a man of energy, integrity and joy. My sincere condolences to his unique and special family. Love, Bea Paul
Tracy Scheidemantel
October 28, 2014
I will always remember Uncle Jay with a smile. I still remember how he used to stick a note in my laundry when i was at Camp Nokomis! He always talked to me--even when i was a bratty little kid. It wasnt until i was older that i really appreciated how nice he was to talk with. Always interested in what others are doing and always had something thoughtful and funny to share. I will miss him and am thinking of you all.
Ray Yacouby
October 28, 2014
May his memory be a blessing to all who knew him!
Ray Yacouby
October 28, 2014
May his memory be a blessing to his family and all who knew him.
October 28, 2014
Jay went out of his way to be generous, even though he knew my parents & had not yet met me, to help my young boys & me when we were in a difficult situation. About 10 years later, he & his wife, Barbara, lent me & my then-fiance their dock on Lake Sunapee where which to get married, and added some some really thoughtful words, too. He was a truly kind man! My family & I were blessed to know him! ...Mary Belle Isle
Larry Eliachar
October 28, 2014
You will be sorely missed. Always ready with a positive word or a piece of advice. You will be missed. Love Larry
October 28, 2014
Jay, you were the sweetest and kindest brother to me. The best guy I've ever known.
I LOove you very much and will miss you soo
much!!!
Your "baby sister" Billie
"stinky" (-:
October 28, 2014
My deepest condolences to family my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Donna Sweeney MGH. RN
Shirley and John Jacobson
October 28, 2014
And how lucky are we and our family to have a brother-in-law who has been such a model for love and caring and commitment to peace and wellbeing of all.
October 28, 2014
My love to all the family at this difficult time. Jay will live on in my wonderful memories of him. Merri Mann
Amy Kaufman
October 27, 2014
My condolences to the family...i remember him well...rest in peace
October 27, 2014
It's with deep sorry that Judy & I learned of the death of our Uncle Jay! Unfortunately we will not be able to attend the funeral or shiva because we will be on our way to California to visit Michael and his family. Our prayers and thoughts are with the whole family during this time of sorrow! Love, hugs and tears! Warren Bovarnick and Family
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