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Jeannette Bourgoin

MADAWASKA, Maine

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MADAWASKA - Jeannette (Deschaine) Bourgoin, 79, a Madawaska resident for 53 years, passed away with family by her side Wednesday, March 30, 2011, at a Bangor hospital after a lengthy illness. "Nannette," as she was known to many who knew her, was born March 23, 1932, in Fort Kent, to Emile H. and Edwina (Leblanc) Deschaine. Jeannette left her home in Fort Kent at the young age of 15 to work in Fort Fairfield as a housekeeper and nanny. She married her husband, Richard of St. Agatha and Houlton, Dec. 26, 1950, and resided in Frenchville where they had the first three of their eight sons. She and Richard moved to Madawaska in 1958 and made their home on Riverview Street where they had their remaining five sons and one daughter. Her neighbors became very special people in her life. Jeannette and her husband worked extremely hard and made many sacrifices to ensure that they could provide their children with a healthy and loving home. Jeannette loved being with her parents, her siblings and her siblings' children just as much as she did her own children. "Life is all about family," she said in her final days before her passing. She loved to travel, shop, "dress for the occasion," watch old movies, read, sing and hum tunes which she herself created that would make any music composer envious. We mustn't forget, she was a great collector too. History was a favorite of hers. She especially enjoyed viewing period and plantation homes. For decades she played cards with many special friends who became known to her children as "The Scat Club." Jeannette was a member of St. David Catholic Church, Daughters of Isabella and Daughters of St. Anne. In addition to her husband, Jeannette is survived by all of her nine children, Ronald "Jeff" and his wife, Madeline "Mado," Reginald "Rick" and his wife, Gail, Michael "Mike" and his wife, Pat, and Peter, all of Madawaska, David and his wife, Helen "Nell," of Lebanon, Conn., Larry and his wife, Cecile, of Hampden, John and his partner, Mark, of Portland, Karen Chessie and her husband, Fearman "Tom," of Sarasota, Fla., and Shawn and his wife, Mona, of Frenchville; grandchildren, Joshua, Samantha, Shelly, Jessica, Randy, Ryan, Erika, Christine, Rachelle, Isaac, Abby, Todd and Claudia; great-grandchildren, William, Lila, Alex, Ethan, Colby, Victoria, Kole, Abigail, Lillian and Laken; six siblings, Cecile Paradis and her husband, Royden, of Fort Kent, Reno and his wife, Anabel "Ann," of Belgrade, Leonette Gendreau of Madawaska, Nelson and his wife, Kathy, of South Yarmouth, Mass., Florence "Marlene" Pelletier and husband, Clarence, of St. David, and Doris Staples of St. Agatha; sisters-in-law, Carol Deschaine of New Cumberland, Pa., and Cecile Ingraham of Houlton; brother-in-law, Donald Libby of Fort Fairfield; godchildren, Carol (Ingraham) Gray of Bucksport and Paula (Gendreau) Techiera of Seabrook, N.H.; many nieces and nephews too numerous to mention individually; and special friends, Yvonne Ladden Bourgoin, Romeo, Rita "my best friend" and David Bouchard of Frenchville. Jeannette was predeceased by her mother, Edwina; father, Emile H.; brother, Reginald; sister, Bernadette Libby; mother-in-law, Celina (Albert) Bourgoin; father-in-law, Walter Bourgoin; brothers-in-law, Roland Gendreau, Paul Ingraham and Russell Staples; grandson, Robert Cyr; and godchild, JoAnne (Libby) McCrum. The family thanks the supportive staff at Eastern Maine Medical Center, Bangor; Forest Hill Nursing Facility and Northern Maine Medical Center, both in Fort Kent, for their assistance in making our mother's final days as comfortable as possible. Special heartfelt thanks and gratitude also go out to Shawn and Mona who opened up their home so Mom could continuously be with family to the very end. On the matter, Mom said, "I was so well treated, I have nothing bad to say." A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated 10 a.m. Tuesday, April 5, at St. David Church. Family and friends may call 6-8 p.m. Monday, April 4, and 9 a.m. until time of service Tuesday at Lajoie Funeral Home. Interment will be later in the spring at St. David Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, those who wish may make a donation in Jeannette's memory to American Diabetes Association, P.O. Box 7023, Merrifield, VA 22116-7023. For online condolences, please visit www.lajoiefuneralhome.com.


This obituary was originally published in the BDN Maine.

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Always in our thoughts. You are greatly missed. Thank you for watching over us. Love you.

Mom at 7 years old (1939)

Chère maman\nIl a été de deux ans depuis que vous nous avez laissés. C'est week-end de Pâques et je pense de nouveau à des jours où nous étions plus jeunes et comment vous employez pour partir furtivement dans nos salles et pour placer un lapin de Pâques solide de 1 livre.
Parfois, vous avez caché des paniers de Pâques de sorte que nous ayons pu rechercher dans toute la maison pour trouver que celle que vous avez voulu dire pour chacun de nous pour avoir. Vous avez fait à chaque vacances...

It's hard to believe you have been gone for two years. We all miss you dearly. Love you. Karen

Happy Birthday Mom. Thank you for watching over us. Love Karen & Tom

Thinking of you this day, your birthday. Miss you.
Love,
Larry

Thinking of you today. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Aba0lVdE2c

Covered in a blanket of snow,
each branch, your children did grow.
Adults we are now,
at times, lost without you somehow.
But each day we do grow stronger,
even though you are no longer.
Because we have seen your light shine,
each one of us can say that there is a part of you that is "all mine".
Forever we will think of your presence,
for at this time of year He gave us the perfect gift of you for a present.
In our minds we will open thoughts of you and...

Rest in peace.

Chicken stew on the stove, the tree is decorated, Silent Night is playing in the background and the light of a candle is flickering. As I follow the traditions you taught me, I know you are here visiting us this Christmas Eve. Merry Christmas Mom.
light a candle,
see it glow,
watch it dance,
when you feel low,
think of me,
think of light,
I'll always be here,
day or night,
a candle flickers,
out of sight,
but in your heart,
I still burn bright,
think...

Today is my Birthday. My gift...a wonderful wife, two loving children and you, my mother, who without you none of it could be possible. Thank you for your gift of my life.

Larry