Jeffrey Weldon Boughner

Jeff and I graduated from Ottawa Hills High Schhol, class of '67.

Today is March 17, 2007 as I write. I knew nothing of Jeff's death until just a few minutes ago when checking Schuler books online.

Jeff was a quiet person, kind of shy in a way, but never to busy to say hello and spend a few minutes talking when we met at the Bookstore. Jeff told me that he had been playing guitar occasionally but aside from that, he kept a pretty low profile.

I remember occasionally...

I have not seen nor talked to Jeff in many years. I knew him back in the Soulbenders days when I was a teenager who was having problems at home and rebelling. When I needed someone to talk to, he was always there. I spent many nights on the phone talking to him about things troubling me and occasionally at his home on Lakeside. He was always there for me, he listened, offered me advice, he was a huge influence on me. I happened to run across old photos I had taken of the band the...

I attended Jeff's funeral last Sunday, and the many people there were a great testament to this kind, compassionate, and talented person. You will be missed, Jeff, more than you could ever imagine! My deepest sympathies to all Jeff's family and friends.

It is small consolation to read through all the entries in this guest book and realize how many people were touched in some way by my cousin Jeff. I was so shocked to lose him at such a young age. I have such wonderful memories of growing up with him and Lee, and am disappointed at not being able to be there in person for his memorial service. He will always be remembered as the "cool" cousin who taught me how to rock and roll!

Our heartfelt condolences go out to the Boughner family. For about three years, we spent many days with Jeff and assorted band members listening to music, going to gigs, and playing "set back". Jeff was always kind, passionate, and humorous. We can still see him sitting at his dining room table, with one hand on a guitar, and the other on the turntable. Thank you Jeff for your great talent and friendship.

Pam Grady, Amy Brogger and Anne Duffy.

Jeff was a courageous musician with big ears. I remember sitting in his living room listening to Coltrane, Pattsy Cline, Prince, Alber Ayler...the list goes on and on. I haven't seen or spoken with Jeff in years but I'll always treasure the afternoons he, Scott Vanderwerf and I made music together ( well.. it was kind of sort of music ).

Bye' Jeff. Sorry I never got another chance to say hello.

It's just so hard to accept that I won't be able to talk with Jeff again. I've been listening to the Blue Nebula CDs all week and remembering all the times I've watched him play. I could always count on Jeff to recommend the best book or CD. I'm not sure how he always knew exactly what I'd like, but I know I'm not the only Schuler Books customer who'll miss that. I've always appreciated our friendship, especially his strength of character. He had a kindness that I rarely ever see. I never saw...

I wish to express my deepest sympathy to the Boughner family. Lee, my life long friend, I sorrow for your loss and hope all your wonderful memories of Jeff help you through your grieving. Barb, your note about Jeff touched my heart and am glad you were able to experience his love.
You are both in my heart and prayers.

Jeff was a good friend to me. He brought much joy and happiness to the world.

I wish I could be more like him and I regret not being able to attend services.