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Jeffrey Collman

Novato, California

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Happiest in Flight
Jeffrey Dwayne Collman, a flight attendant for American Airlines, had his normal flight pattern down pat: he worked the Boston-to- San Francisco route, an itinerary that linked two of his favorite cities and made for a reasonable commute home to Navato, Calif.

His presence on Flight 11 on Sept. 11 was a fluke: he had a birthday coming up on Sept. 28 and signed on for the extra trip so that he could take time off to turn 42 with a little party at home. An inspired dessert chef, he was likely planning to get creative and bake his own birthday cake.

And he didn't mind flying the extra shift: traveling was his idea of bliss. Becoming a flight attendant three and a half years ago had been the culmination of a stubborn campaign. After United turned him down, he applied to American; he was ecstatic when he was accepted on his second try.

His on-the-ground passion was tennis. The week before his death, he attended the United States Open in Queens.

"He had friends all over the world; he was a people person," said his stepmother, Kay Collman from Yorkville, Ill., his hometown. "He'd know the life histories of his passengers after just one flight."

Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on December 9, 2001.


Jeffrey Collman loved to fly and loved to travel.

The Yorkville native determined at a young age that the easiest way to do both was to become a flight attendant.

Collman, 41, who lived in Novato, Calif., caught on with American Airlines five years ago.

"It was his dream job. He had friends all around the world from his travels," his stepmother, Kay Collman said from her home in Yorkville.

Tuesday, Collman was working at his dream job when American Airlines Flight 11 was hijacked and then slammed into the first World Trade Center tower.

The Collmans last heard from their son via e-mail the night before he left Boston, telling them he was headed to Los Angeles.

They knew quickly Tuesday that he must have been on the plane they saw on TV crash into the tower.

"When anything happened bad before involving planes, he'd call us and say, `I'm OK.' But he didn't this time. We knew in our hearts before it was confirmed," Kay Collman said.

On Saturday, Collman's parents were at O'Hare International Airport to catch a flight to Boston for grievance counselling arranged by American Airlines.

As she waited to board the plane, Kay Collman recalled how much Jeffrey loved to travel. She used to tell him he should be saving his money for when he got older.

She remembered him telling her: "There's no guarantee I am going to be old."

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Thirty-five years ago today, I would meet my soul-mate and the love of my life—Jeff Collman. I think of Jeff every day. I remember his smile, his jokes, and most of all his love. Our love for each other continues to sustain me until such time we are reunited. We met at a mutual friend’s birthday party—and from then on-/glued to each other. Jeff will always be the love of my life. Anyone who wants to communicate with me, my email is [email protected].

I never knew that Jeff Coleman was on a legacy.com website. As a flight attendant for American Airlines hired in the summer of 2001, it was my honor to meet Jeff Coleman and have him as my unofficial mentor. Jeff taught me a lot, but I learned even more when we worked a flight together with one other flight attendant that I met out on the line my first day. One of the best stories I heard about Jeff was that he had a travel Yatzee game. Word on the street was that Jeff could roll anything he...

I did not personally know Jeffrey, but as a college student at Texas Woman's University researching the lives of those lost in the 9/11 attacks, I came across his obituary and was deeply moved. From what I read, he seemed like a wonderful person, and it is clear he was dearly loved. Sending love and condolences to his friends, family, and loved ones. May he rest in peace.

Jeff, tomorrow the 28th of September, marks another birthday for you. I think of you often and your love remains indelibly etched in my heart. I see your spirit in so many ways. Know that I’m thinking of you especially on this special day.

You will never be forgotten. I'm so sorry for what happened to you.

Sorry For Your Lost ...... Rest In Peace You Will Be Missed.

You will always be with me.

It was just 34 years ago today, one incredibly kind and loving man entered my life. Jeff and I met at a mutual friends birthday party. He said he noticed me from across the very crowded room. The next 11 years would be the happiest time in my life. Each day, I try to emulate how Jeff lived and he often said, “Live life to the fullest, never have a bad day, and be happy with what you have.” I thank God each day for Jeff, a man who taught me the meaning of love and life.

Today would have been Jeff’s 64th Birthday. No matter the age, I think of you every day! Eternally together!