Jeffrey F. Meyer

I have good, but distant memories of Jeff at UNCC when I was a student, and when a housemate of Cathy´s, Jeff would drop off his sons for Cathy to babysit. His pleasant and gentle demeanor was always present. My memories are of his daily Tai-Chi near Rowe Lake when I was a student, and a synchronous moment in 1973 when I exited my cousin´s apartment in Greenwich Village only to have a man on the street just feet away say, "Margaret?" Jeff was staying with a friend who lived above my cousin at...

It was an honor to know Jeff and share wonderful times with him and Cathy ... apart from being an intellectual and fascinating, Jeff was among the kindest and gentlest of men.

Cathy, I am so sorry to hear about Jeff. What an amazing, wonderful, loving, kind human being he was! I know you will miss him terribly, and at the same time I am so happy that you two had each other for so many years of togetherness. I can picture him now, in my mind and in my heart, and I love the image -- of kindness and gentle humor, of wit and selflessness. What a wonderful human being he was. You will be in my thoughts and in my prayers.

Cathy,
I'm so sorry to hear about Jeff. I wish I could have been more like him.
Robin Brabham