Rockville Centre, New York
A Younger Big Brother
It wasn't exactly a feminist household, but it didn't revolve around the only boy in the family, either. A shy kid at first who suffered through ''the hormonal rages'' of three sisters growing up, John W. Wright Jr. finally put his foot down at 15, when it became chic for girls to wear boxer shorts. ''They are stealing my underwear,'' he complained to his father. ''Don't I have a right to have underwear?''
Nonetheless, or maybe as a result, John grew up to be a staunch family man, remaining devoted to his mother and, despite the demands of being a managing director at Sandler O'Neill, always finding time to help with the care of his three children, frequently taking them to visit relatives to give his wife some time to herself. ''He was a very devoted father,'' his father said. ''I was so proud of him for that.''
And, adolescent chafing aside, his sisters now realize how much they looked up to him. ''They would never let him be the big brother,'' his father said, ''although now, from what they're telling me, he was the big brother all along.''
I gave blood yesterday in Kingsport, Tennessee, and I was given a card with Joh W. Wright, Jr.'s name on it, saying that I was donating in his memory. Reading his tribute here makes me proud to have done that. God bless his memory and his family.
Amber McKnight
September 12, 2024
P.F.N. Eugene J. Buehl
Gene Buehl
September 11, 2016 | Escondido, CA
My name is John Wright from Indiana. Sorry about your loss, God bless you all.
February 09, 2015
John worked with my husband in Florida. The memories I have of him are reflected in this article. We eventually, met Martha and attended their beautiful wedding. They both were clearly surrounded by wonderful friends and family. Martha, I think of you often. I never met your children, but I hope you all are doing well.
Dana Kovac
September 11, 2014 | Clearwater, FL
I never knew John but I have been reading alot of the bio's of lives lost and I read John's story. He was the protector of his sisters and Mom, I am sure they miss him so much. May God bless his wife, children family and friends. None of the victims of 9/11 died in vain, they are always in the hearts and prayers of the American people. Be at peace John with the Lord.
A Mom of Three
January 28, 2014 | RVC, NY
I met both Martha and John at UVM. John-O, as we called him, was such a fun loving, kind hearted person. He was one of our ski buddies and always had us laughing with his quick wit and great smile. My heart is heavy this day as I think of Martha, their children and the rest of the Wright family. As well as the other families who lost loved ones in this horrible tragedy.
Linda McLean-Golub
September 11, 2010 | Freehold,, NJ
Thanks for sharing your spirit, John.
Edward Hoyt
December 17, 2009 | Washington, DC
Gene & Lois Mazza
Gene Mazza
September 11, 2009 | Yonkers, NY
John and I became friends during our freshman year at UVM. He was a good man. I will never forget nor stop being angry at the cowards that involved innocent civilians in their insanity.
Tony Shulman
September 09, 2009 | Reno, NV
