JOHN-BENDER-Obituary

JOHN BENDER

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 JOHN FREDERICK BENDER  (Age 73)  A resident of McLean, VA, John Bender died at the Adler Center for Caring in Aldie, VA on April 9, 2018. He had lung cancer. A graduate of Phillips Exeter Academy, Princeton University, and the Fletcher School of Law and Diplomacy, John had a long...

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John was an exceptional human being in every way. I'm proud to have known him when I was just a young pup and he was a wise and dedicated leader. His government work was important to our nation. Thank you, John.

Thinking of you today, Margaret and family. Remembering your loss, April and Kevin

Thinking of you, Margaret and family as you remember John with loving thoughts. April Herbert

A student, I first met John in 1979 in New Delhi and he invited me to his home for dinner for my first Christmas there, where I met his wife Margaret and two daughters. Thank you John; you were a good man. Margaret, I am sorry for your loss.

I am remembering John and your loss on this second anniversary of his death. Best regards,
April and Kevin Herbert

Margaret and Family,
I know you are all strong,yet miss Johns presence in your lives. My thoughts go out to you on this day of remembrance.
Best regards,
April Herbert

As time and life's routine goes on, know that we think of you and your family, with much affection!

Meg:. We are so very sorry to learn of John's passing. It's been far too long as life took us on different paths. We've thought of you, Heather and Alex over the years and our days together in DC. If your travels bring you through St Louis, please look us up.

I met John while working in South Asia and underneath the veneer of seriousness was a wonderful sense of humor and huge smile! I was glad to have worked with John even for a short period of time.