John-Phelps West-Obituary

John "Jay" Phelps West

Cotati, California

1945 - 2022

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John "Jay" Phelps West John "Jay" Phelps West passed away peacefully at his home in Cotati on July 23, 2022. Born in Annapolis MD on June 3, 1945, Jay grew up in New England, attending Phillips Exeter Academy and Princeton University. Following his service as a Naval officer during the Vietnam...

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Many classmates at the prep school I attended from 1956 to1963 I found superficial, snobbish, and supercilious. One who was not was Jay West. Even though I did not know him as well as others, I sensed his fairness, an indelible, inherent decency. That, as well as his unassuming intelligence and overall modesty, I always admired, even to the extent of seeking him out years after we had lost touch-2016 or so. He was the same. Knowing Jay was one of the happy parts of my life.

Judy and family I have you in my heart as I just heard of Jay´s passing. From one of Jay´s fellow preppies from rival Andover I will always remember his kind soul, sense of humor and smile!

Condolences... Just hear of Jay's passing. Very sad. Where did all the years go?