Joseph Cornelius Ruddy, Jr., age 80, died on October 19, 2024. Joe was born in Washington, D.C., and raised in Cheverly, Maryland. There he and his wife Joanne resided for over 55 years and raised their eleven (11) children. A graduate of St. John’s College High School, he received his B.S. from Georgetown University and a M.A. from George Washington University. He received a Juris Doctor degree from Georgetown University School of Law. While at law school, he taught at Federal City College (UDC). He started a small general law practice in Hyattsville, Maryland after law school that served clients for more than fifty (50) years.
Joseph is survived by his wife Joanne C. Ruddy, and ten of their children: Catherine Rehkemper (Andrew), Elizabeth Hatch (Austin), Joseph III, John (Deborah), Rosemarie Timmermann (John), Bridgid Hartman (Timothy), Paul, Theresa, Joanne, and William; as well as twenty-four grandchildren. Joseph is preceded in death by his son James, daughter-in-law Megan and his parents, Joseph Sr. and Catherine Ruddy.
Joseph is also survived by twenty-four grandchildren who affectionately call him “Chief”: Elizabeth, Amelia, and Mary Catherine Rehkemper; Kiley Lawrence (James); John Austin, Samuel, Beatrice, Flannery, Ezekiel, and Nathaniel Hatch; Joseph IV, Jacob, Matthew and Emily Ruddy; Ashley and Nicholas Ruddy; John IV, Annabelle, Madeleine, and Patrick Timmermann; Kiersten, William, Ryan, and Erin Hartman
A dedicated son, uncle, husband, father, and grandfather, Joseph was a lover of sports, running and biking. He was a loyal and dedicated fan of the Washington Redskins, Georgetown Hoyas Men’s Basketball Team, and Notre Dame Football.
Joseph spent many summers with his family in Ocean City, New Jersey, where he worked as a pin boy, a cook at Voltaco’s Italian Foods, a lifeguard for the Ocean City New Jersey Beach Patrol, and a summer police officer for the Ocean City New Jersey Police Department.
Joseph dedicated nearly 50 years serving as a coach, Athletic Director or Board Member for the Cheverly Boys and Girls Club. He dedicated innumerable hours to the development and operation of intramural leagues, which provided every interested child the opportunity to participate.
He was known as the Head Coach of the “Ruddy Red Team” in the 9 and Under Basketball League, whose games attracted capacity crowds and their opponent’s best effort. He taught his players the fundamentals of basketball and good sportsmanship with a sense of humor and positivity that helped each child develop skills and confidence, while always finding a way for every child on his team to contribute.
Joseph was also a longtime member of St. Ambrose Catholic Church in Cheverly, Maryland where he served on the Parish Council and where he and his wife were moderators of the Teen Club. Later in life, they served as Eucharistic Ministers at St. Jerome’s Catholic Church in Hyattsville, Maryland and served the residents of Independence Court, an assisted living home.
A loving father and husband, Joseph dedicated his life to his family. A loyal friend and fierce competitor in sports and the law, Joseph believed in justice and practicing fairness in all ways of life.
Family and friends may offer condolences at Beall Funeral Home in Bowie, Maryland on October 28, 2024, from 5:00 -7:00 pm. On Tuesday, October 29, 2024, at St. Ambrose Church in Cheverly, Maryland there will be a viewing from 10:00 -11:00 am followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11 am. Interment to follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, 13801 Georgia Avenue, Silver Spring, Maryland 20906.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Cheverly Boys and Girls Club in honor of Joseph. Donations can be mailed to the Cheverly Boys and Girls Club, 2907 Hillside Avenue Cheverly, Maryland 20785.
Donations may also be made to Saint Ambrose Catholic Church, 6301 Jason Street, Cheverly, Maryland 20785.
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Steve Johnson
December 19, 2024
Was a good man and great friend. He was heck of a coach and his team was always prepared I coached against Joe many times and it was always hard but it was fair. I will always remembers Joe's favorite play for his team Super PP. I miss you joe. RIP my friend.
David COMBS
October 24, 2024
Mr. Ruddy or "Joe The Father" as we called him lived just up Forest Rd from us in Cheverly. Our son Harrison played on multiple Boys and Girls Club teams from age 7 up to high school, and he loved participating for the town. I enjoyed assisting Joe with Boys and Girls Club tasks, and my wife loved hearing stories about "old" Cheverly as we were much newer to the town. Joe is a constant topic of admiration in our family for his work with the town, and he always had a smile, a kind word and a story that would make you laugh.
Alison Brodt Jovanovic
October 24, 2024
Mr. Ruddy was a constant presence in my childhood as a neighbor, family friend and dearly beloved coach. I have so many memories of running plays and hearing his whistle. He was deeply loved and will be missed.
David COMBS
October 23, 2024
We lived a few doors down from "Joe the Father" in Cheverly for 15 years, and he always had a smile or a funny story to tell. My son played on Cheverly Boys and Girls Club teams, and Joe would be at games watching his grandkids play or coaching (basketball,) and my son always had a great time. RIP to The Chief.
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